How to Develop Your Talking Skills and Use Flattery on Women

Knowing how to deal with failure should be an important think to learn when talking to women. 

My advice is to get used to failure and learn from each experience.  In fact, by taking the time to judge each interaction you'll be able to work on your "attracting women skills".

Like everything else we learn in life, there is a certain skill to attracting women.  While some are naturals at it, most of us have had to work at developing this skill.

Now one of the most important skills you have to develop is your ability to carry a conversation.  If you don't how to speak to women, you'll have little chance of success.

Here are a few different areas that'll help build your conversation skills:

• Develop great openers which will be engaging

• Work on telling interesting stories

• Know how to project a cocky/funny attitude when in conversations with a woman

• Be great at teasing women that'll spark attraction

With any skill, these conversation techniques won't work that well at first.  Over time, you will learn from your mistakes and increase your overall success.

Now the best talk to a woman is through the subtle use of flattery.

Basically flattery is a way to send a woman a positive message during your conversation.  The problem is many guys use flattery the wrong way.

For instance, most guys make the mistake of complimenting a woman on a physical characteristic like her eyes or body. Typically this type of flattery doesn't go well because it demonstrates you're only interested in her outward appearance instead of "what she's about".

The correct way to use flattery is to comment on something which she can control.  An example would be the way that she dresses.  As we all know, women LOVE to plan what they wear and will agonize over every little fashion decision. 

When you compliment her on an outfit, it'll flatter her taste in clothing and demonstrates an approval of her style.  Another benefit is complimenting her on the clothing she wears is subtle way to tell you're attracted to her.  It's telling her she's attractive without coming out and saying it.

So if you want to effectively impress a woman and learn how to develop your talking skill, make sure you flatter her in a way that compliments a something she can control.  Then transition the conversation towards topics which demonstrate your higher value.