The communication also includes knowing about, and I know that many men have difficulty with this communication tool. Indeed, some can no longer speak...
The communication also includes knowing about,
and I know that many men have difficulty with this communication tool. Indeed, some can no longer speak after a time, others can not have a discussion that will really interest women, there are many problems associated with the seduction conversation among men and we see how to fix it.
First, answer the question "what? . As discussed above, it is useless to try to impress the women you encounter in abuse of scientific theory, philosophical or otherwise, because it's too boring, monotonous and often virtually devoid of any emotion because this are about sound. Be a little more superficial it can not hurt you.
I will obviously not say that women are superficial, but when it comes to having a good time with someone they do not particularly want to enter discussions too rational, their aim is primarily to entertain and if you're smart and educated they are very good qualities in seduction, but you do not need to display, it will feel all alone and it will give you even more desirable!
"Only the weak are agitated and trying to show their strength."
Talk about what surrounds you, facts that you know will be interested (that is to say, not football! Unless she told you she was interested of course ...) and make the talk about it.
Why the need to talk about it you ask me? It's simple, here are 3 reasons: to speak of it should have seemed more interesting to listen to you rant about your life for half an hour (so if I assure you), then you learn things about them ( Sun Tzu, in "the art of war, said that knowing your enemy is a very good thing) and finally it will maintain the mystery that surrounds you and him will still things to discover about you.
Now that we know what to say, answer the question "how? . You may be those who do not know how a conversation interesting, fulfilling and fluid. Some of you are probably faced with the problem of "white" who frequently arrive in a conversation and it bothers you.
Do not worry, I was in the same situation but now I can not brag too much, that I am able to hold a discussion with a woman who will experience feelings of very complex and 'increasing desire for me just by talking.
Firstly, at the time of getting acquainted, you'll have to ask many questions to get to know you. The problem is that usually this kind of discussion quickly turns to a conversation-style interview.
Example:
Guy: What's your name?
She: Christine and you?
Guy: Michael, you live where?
Her: Two blocks from here and you?
Etc etc ...
Let's add one of our magic ingredient: humor.
Ex:
Guy: What's your name?
She: Christine and you?
Guy: Jean-Claude Constantin Honore Gustave Theophile Gauthier, but you can call me Michael if you want ...
This gives another effect right?
Now, we take care of style, and learn to avoid the "style questioning" and the famous "white". The goal here is to find a way to have a sustained conversation and scattered issues in the discussion. This will have to learn to continue the current subjects while keeping the rest for later and alternating questions and comments so as not to appear to a commissioner in charge of an investigation, see what happens :
Dude: You live where?
She: A few blocks away
Guy: Weird, I come here often and I never saw you, you would not be a liar by chance. (Said in the tone of the joke)
Dude: You do not go out often?
She: Yes, but I do not stay in this neighborhood.
At this stage, do not ask another question like "What are you doing in life? "Because it creates a break, and you tap into your supply of subjects. It is better to continue on the same subject by asking, "Really? Why not? "And possibly adding a comment humorous and ironic style:
"But there is everything a girl can dream look here, a bakery ... pharmacy ... well as ways to have fun here."
Once the topic reviewed thoroughly, you will eventually pass to his passions, his leisure and focus on what really pleases him.
If despite this you find yourself in a situation where there is a "white", do not worry, keep your confidence, as it happens and it is ABSOLUTELY not serious unless it stresses you and it shows ... You must, in any situation to keep control of yourself (it's also very masculine that).
Again, the humor can save you and make you good services. For example, if "white" say something like: Well! That's all you tell me? You know, if you want to seduce me he'll have to do better than that!
And from then resume the conversation. You see where I am getting? You'll see a little practice it becomes natural.
Difference
Another concept is the difference and for that, by working hypothesis:
Hypothesis
Returning to the example of computers and now imagine that all computers are almost the same, they have a case which differs a little from time to time, but all machines have roughly the same performance ...
In this case, the business of a dealer may be difficult because you have nothing to differentiate yourself from the competition, ie nothing special that will ensure that customers come to you rather than another ... For cons If a competitor takes a somewhat different model and that this difference is more about quality than it is obvious that attract a mass of customers much more important than who you have a trivial model. By cons, if the model is too eccentric, it will appeal to only a small portion of the population (probably eccentric ellemême).
Your goal will be to show your difference does not seem trivial. Think, you have something that differentiates you from others, and if this is not the case, there is still time to discover something that will differentiate you.
Use your imagination!
So it is best to be different, but not to excess either.
Remember that what is repetitive and predictable monotone devoid of feeling and not surprisingly, in 1 word: boring.
In other words, if you're predictable and / or react so always equal, you become boring and not provoke any feelings in women (except boredom!).
It is therefore vital to be, initially, sufficiently different from other men to emerge from the mass, but also vary your activities and reactions to be unpredictable!
If you can do that women can not do without your presence so entertaining!
FIND YOUR OWN STYLE AND BECOME UNFORESEEABLE!
