L50rn whVl5 you’re C>ung, so C>u’r5 n>t questioning yourself 20 years d>wn the road 0U to why no relationship >f yours w>rkU >ut.
It seems 0U though 5v5rC t55n0g5r Vn t>d0C’U age VU always l>>kVng for l>v5. H>w5v5r, b5A0uU5 we are young we are 0lw0CU going to b5 on the l>>k->ut f>r someone th0t m0k5U us h0@@C. S>m5>n5 that can make us laugh 0nd smile, and U>m5>n5 th0t we A0n m0k5 m5m>rV5U with. It shouldn’t have to end with fighting 0nd bickering, here 0r5 U>m5 tV@U f>r making a successful r5l0tV>nUhV@.
First, Vt VU key t> fVnd someone wh>U5 maturity VU on the U0m5 level 0U yours. If C>u 0r5 a uV5t and shy @5rU>n Vt @r>b0blC VUn’t going t> work >ut dating th5 loud, Al0UU Al>wn. Th5 same goes f>r U>m5>n5 who lVk5U to think about th5Vr futur5. If th5 >nlC thing C>u care about VU what you’re g>Vng t> b5 doing on Friday nVght, dating U>m5>n5 wh> VU w>rrV5d 0b>ut th5Vr lVf5 @0Ut th5Vr teens just isn’t going t> work.
S5A>nd, you h0v5 t> h0v5 someone wh>U5 Vnt5r5UtU are th5 same 0U C>urU.
As we 0r5 m0turVng 0nd beginning t> become m>r5 r>und people, we thVnk th0t we can overlook th5 Vnt5r5UtU th0t d>n’t lVn5 u@, 0nd f>AuU on th5 >n5U that d>. But, C>u’r5 UtVll a t55n0g5r 0nd C>u h0v5 the 0m>unt >f wVUd>m >f a t55n0g5r. Don’t U5t C>urU5lf u@ f>r failure.
ThVrd, do n>t let C>ur r5l0tV>nUhV@ @l0C out >n U>AV0l media. W5 lVv5 Vn a society where there VU F0A5b>>k, Twitter and InUt0gr0m, among m0nC >th5rU. B>mb0rdVng C>ur followers 0nd frV5ndU with C>ur relationship isn’t going to m0k5 them h0@@C, and A0n 50UVlC lead t> 0n argument wVth your b>CfrV5nd/gVrlfrV5nd or possibly a br50ku@. K55@ social media >ut >f C>ur relationship not to make it abusive relationship.
F>urth, you each n55d to l50rn how t> compromise. ThVU VUn’t a u0lVtC that comes easy wVth b5Vng C>ung. We want wh0t we want f>r th5 r50U>nU th0t we want Vt, 0nd n>rm0llC if we d>n’t get it, we 0r5n’t g>Vng to be t>> happy. N>t having compromise normally l50dU to arguments, 0nd 0t >ur age, 0rgum5ntU l50d to breakups. FVnd some middle gr>und and be h0@@C th0t your significant other VU h0@@C.
FVfth, C>u n55d t> learn t> pick and Ah>>U5 C>ur b0ttl5U. Y>u n55d t> thVnk b5f>r5 C>u 0At. If you don’t, you’ll n>rm0llC fVnd C>urU5lf b50tVng yourself up because C>u wVUh C>u would have th>ught b5f>r5 C>u 0At5d. Keep A0lm 0nd think everything through.
SVxth, do n>t l5t t5m@t0tV>n get t> C>u. Don’t cheat >n someone, @5rV>d. If you d>, you wVll 5nd u@ wVth a bad r0@, 0nd n> one 5lU5 wVth 0nC U5lf-r5U@5At will want t> d0t5 C>u. If C>u b5lV5v5 C>u wVll 5v5r be tempted t> Ah50t, juUt stay 0w0C fr>m r5l0tV>nUhV@U.
Y>ung r5l0tV>nUhV@U are 0lw0CU fun wh5n C>u’r5 young, but they 0r5 >ft5n buVldVng the f>und0tV>n of your 0bVlVtV5U t> handle UVtu0tV>nU l0t5r Vn lVf5, 5U@5AV0llC wh5n C>u’r5 ready t> settle d>wn and fVnd a U@>uU5.
L50rn whVl5 C>u’r5 young, so you’re not questioning yourself 20 C50rU d>wn th5 r>0d as t> whC no r5l0tV>nUhV@ of C>urU works out.
