Getting dumped is a good reason to make your ex jealous so she'll want you back again. There's no way for me to know what happened, but maybe she crus...
Getting dumped is a good reason to make your ex jealous so she'll want you back again. There's no way for me to know what happened,
but maybe she crushed your heart and now you want to put a little of that back at her. What about making her realize once again that you're an attractive guy and she shouldn't take you for granted? Whatever, but you need to bend the power of jealousy in a way that annoys her like a persistent itch.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #1 - Understanding Women and Jealousy
A woman's greatest fear is the underpinnings of her relationships, that is the first thing to realize when you're seeking to enlist the aid of jealousy. Matter of fact: Women are afraid of losing your attraction to them even if they've dumped you. You've perhaps noted the vain bastard who is careless about women's hearts, yet always has them panting. Of course, you and I, the decent guys, move left, move right, to catch a woman's attraction.
Ignore her. That's your first move. Now, don't act like a jerk; employ some finesse.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #2 - Make Her Feel Like She's Missing Out
You may be aching to tell her that you hate the earth she walks on and that you never really cared a bit for her, but that's not going to work. Why make yourself a spoiler? That's all those kind of words will do. And they'll just make her mad. You don't want either of those things to happen.
What you need to do is make sure you leave a vacuum in her life. Don't involve yourself in her life at all. Display a lot of disinterest should she make an attempt to reach out. Be very cool. But don't push it to the point of nastiness. Now is the time to kick up your heels. Let all your mutual friends know what a great time you're having. You need to become the fun guy you once were.
Make her wonder about what she may be missing. Women hate to be bored and she might start thinking about what she may be missing. She'll be remembering the fun times you guys had when you were together. She'll be wondering why she let a fun guy like you go.
Make Ex Girlfriend Jealous Tip #3 - Turn Up the Heat
Now you're working. You're being somewhat stand-offish when it comes to her. And, you're having lots of fun with your terrific friends. Now it's time to get down to brass tacks. She probably wants to be part of your circle again. This is where you start playing the jealousy card - hard.
The next push is to start being seen with other women. Okay, you want your ex back, so don't date seriously. But, it will be a mild eyebrow-raiser if you take another girl out to lunch or on a small shopping trip.
Sooner or later word will get back to your ex and she'll start wondering. This is going to put her in a guessing game and she'll be wondering it she's blown it; that she has to act soon.
You've done the jealousy thing well enough to make her wonder long and hard about you. She's probably figuring out how to get you back. Now, it's your turn. She took you for granted once. Now it's up to you to decide which way things will go now. Sure, the ball may be in your court now, but don't be a jerk. Whether you take her back or not, you don't want to be mean. Don't be a bad guy, she's got feelings, too. Besides, wouldn't you rather be remembered as a nice guy instead of a creep?
