Did My Ex Boyfriend Leave Forever - How To Get Him Back

Did My Ex Boyfriend Leave Forever - How To Get Him Back

Has your boyfriend left you? Has he told you, for reasons you still cannot understand, that you both no longer compatible with each other? It is really one of the painful experiences a person can go through. Being left for no apparent reasons, stabs you right in the middle of your self-confidence. It lowers your self-esteem and pushes you to ask many questions about yourself. The sad part is that without any clear reason why he decided to leave, you always assume that it was your entire fault.

Though that is unfair, there is always a cause why a man suddenly wants to end a relationship. The best decision you can make, in such a situation, is to figure out what the real reason was. He may avoid disclosing what really pushed him to take such a decision. It may be also that he is not sure, or just does not want to discuss it. That is why this article will shed the light on what might be the reasons behind your partner ’s decision.

First Reason: He Was Unhappy.

Generally, this happens after the honeymoon period is over. At first, during the first months of the relationship, you feel so excited that you almost cannot hold yourself from smiling all the time. You are happy being around the man who cherishes and loves you. You want to discover everything about the life of your boyfriend, since it is still uncovered and holds a lot of mystery.

However, fast-forward a few months ahead, and reality begins to set in. The small things begin to bother you, and what you previously admired in your boyfriend, it gets now on your nerves. You are discovering the real world where both of your differences are illuminated.

However, for those who can endure this stage of the relationship, and accept each other’s differences, they can have a lasting and healthy relationship. Unfortunately, many couples throw in the towel at the first roadblock they meet. They think by moving out of the relationship, and looking for another one, they can be happy.

Sadly, they don’t know that the problem has nothing to do with the other person, but has much to do with one’s way of handling the relationship’s problems.

Second Reason: Too much pressure on Him.

Men by nature don’t like to be told what to do. Dictating to a man what to do, equates telling him that he is inadequate to do things properly his own way; your partner will feel disrespectful if he is not in charge of his own decision. If women need love, then men crave respect; it is really important to understand this concept about men. They prefer being unloved to being disrespected.

It is really important to be able to know your man’s preferences. Knowing what bothers him, and what makes him feel respected, will hold you the keys to build a secure and wonderful relationship. Here are some highlights on what men consider disrespectful to them.

- Make him feel, by hinting or directly, that he is not intelligent, incapable, or incompetent.

- Criticizing him all the time, putting him down, or belittling him.

- Displaying your financial or social superiority over him.

- Make a comparison between him and another man.

- Not showing him enough attention and appreciation.

- Disrespect his judgment.

- Doubt what he says until it is affirmed by someone else.

The above list contains a few of the reasons that may push a man away. If you want the man in your life to give you his undivided attention, then you ought to get rid of these bad patterns.

There are many other powerful techniques you can choose from to get your man's undivided attention. If you keep on implementing these techniques, you will soon see your ex-boyfriend displaying signs he wants you back in his life once again.

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