Dating woman online is not an easy way specially in your first approach.
Whether you're new to online dating or you've been in the game for a while, here are some must-know dating tips on how to approach a classy woman online.
It's important to remember that as a man you have less than 3 seconds to impress her with your profile and your method of approaching her. Being one of hundreds, possibly thousands of men to compete for attention from her, you must know how to set yourself apart.
As dating experts in the field of connecting world traveled individuals through our own online dating site, we are bringing forth our best tips on how to impress classy ladies. These are not your usual type women, they are well educated and think highly of themselves. These are women that hold good jobs, are entrepreneurs and can hold their own in a competitive world. If these are the type of women you are looking to date, here are our best tips in making a great first impression:
Tip #1 on how to approach a woman online: Don't 'wink' at her.
Depending on which dating site you have joined, there is usually a button where you can wink at a woman to get her attention. If you're on Facebook this is called 'pokes.' Sometimes they are called 'icebreakers' and we've also seen them called 'twinkel' or 'flirts.' These are all attempts to show someone that you're interested in them, without the need to write an email. In other words, there is no effort needed, all you do is push a button. Depending on the attractiveness of a woman she can get hundreds of these 'winks' a day or within days, almost all of which are completely ignored. We have heard from many of our online female clientele that it is their golden rule of thumb to never, ever pay attention from anyone who winks at them. There must be a unique, ballsy email from them, one that shows they have taken the time to read their profile. Everyone else gets ignored.
Tip #2 on how to approach a woman online: Skip the mass e-mails.
At first blush this may sound like a great idea and time saver. The thought "casting your net wide" comes to mind. The challenge with this method is that you can't possibly write one email and send it to a hundred classy women and at the same time write something personal about their profile. This extra step, however, is what sets you apart. You have to remember that women get emails and winks all day long from guys that are casting their nets wide. To men this may be a number's game. They figure if they send 100 emails and 30% respond, that's a pretty good pool of possible candidates. However, you must remember that the quality woman you're really looking for is probably not amongst those 30% who will respond, because her standards are much higher than to respond to a cut and paste email template.
Tip #3 on how to approach a woman online: Find something special in her profile.
It is those classy men who take time out of their busy schedule to sincerely read their profile and comment about something in particular who can expect a response back. Women love to know that he's taken time out of his busy schedule to read her profile. This shows them that you are truly interested in her, not in casting your net as wide as possible to fish for as many women as possible, but that you're looking for that one diamond.
Tip #4 on how to approach a woman online: Don't overwhelm her.
There is no need for you to express how much you really like her or express to her how hot she is. There's nothing more repulsive to a classy, confident lady than an email that says "hi hottie" or "wow, you're so beautiful." She already knows this and doesn't need you to underline the obvious, especially not in a cheesy way. The fact that you're emailing her says that you're interested, leave it at that when you first start out communicating. There is plenty of time for you to express your attraction to her once you meet.
Remember that classy women want to meet classy men. Do you have what it takes to woo such a lady?
