How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - With Top Love Tips

How Do I Get My Ex Boyfriend Back - With Top Love Tips
If a guy has ever dumped you, you're probably thinking to yourself, "How do I get my ex boyfriend back?" Or, "How do you win your man back?" Don't try to get your man back without taking into consideration certain things.

Who Broke Up With Whom and Why?

For example, whose idea was it to break up? Depending on how bad things got between the two of you, there may be hope to your question "How do I get my ex boyfriend back?" In other instances, it may be best to stay separated.

Should You Let Sleeping Dogs Lie?

In some cases, it's better to let sleeping dogs lie. Some relationships should never be revived and should have never occurred in the first place. Here are some instances in which you are better off not getting back together with an ex boyfriend:

1. He Beats You

2. He Humiliates You

3. He Constantly Belittles You

4. He Engages in Criminal behavior

5. He Cheats On You

Those are the top 5 reasons not to get back with your ex boyfriend - unless he gets help for those issues. If you got ditched by your ex because:

1. You were possessive and jealous

2. You didn't create a life of your own

3. You were too clingy

4. You were too available

5. You kept asking for reassurances

Then there is probably hope for you to win him back. These kinds of behaviors are common and aren't the end of the world.

With the second set of issues, the issue doesn't lie in the fact that your man was not worthy. The issue is that you need to learn how to relate differently to men. You need to understand them so that you can start behaving like the woman and let him behave like the man.

Don't Make a Fool Of Yourself

Your goal now is to get your ex to think about you enough so that he contacts you and wants to be with you again. You have to be able to do this though, without looking desperate, without it being obvious and without you looking like a fool.

What are some of the things you shouldn't do:

Don't Contact Him

Don't Show Up at His Home

Don't Show Up at His Job

Don't Stalk Him

Don't Ask His Friends About Him

If you don't call, he'll wonder what you're doing and start to miss you. I know this seems obvious, but so many women, in their desperate attempts to get their man back, call and call and text their ex boyfriends - which makes them pull further and further away.

Get a Life of Your Own

Now is the perfect time to create your life. Actually, you should have had your own life while you were dating - then you wouldn't have been so clingy and needy. Focus on your hobbies. What do you love to do? What kinds of things do you think are fun? What makes you laugh? Figure those things out and do them! Do them with friends or do them by yourself.

Lastly, it's not the end of the world if your boyfriend breaks up with you. But if you want advice to the question, "How do I get my ex-boyfriend back,"

If you still love your ex, don't give up. You can download a free PDF eBook that will give you Expert Professional strategies on how to get your ex back in love with you when you visit my blog links usually below at the Authors Bio section.