How to Win Him Back - A Simple Guide to Win Back Your Ex In No Time

Today you finally decided that you will find ways on how to win him back. You may have given up on him and the relationship before, but lonely days and even lonelier nights made you change your mind. You know that in your heart and mind, there is just one man meant to be your "soul mate".

On other days, you find yourself wondering if you had just gone crazy or what? Your friends will be the first to tell you to move on, forget him and start dating. But you keep telling yourself, they don't understand. "They had not been through the pain I am in now," you keep telling yourself. "They had not shared meaningful times with this guy and they don't really know him as much as I do."

So okay, today you decided, in spite of what others are saying, that you will devise a plan on how to win him back. If that's exactly what's going on in your mind, then read on and consider the following tips on how to win him back:

1. Look back and try to understand what caused the breakup in the first place. Was it an argument about something so trivial, that you don't really remember what it all about? What could you have done better? What could he have done differently to avoid that one critical moment when tempers flared and you both said things you didn't really mean, but can't take back anymore?

2. Be honest with yourself and ask if getting him back is really what you want to happen. What are the things that draw you to him and are these the same reasons that will keep your love alive for years to come? Did he at one point feel the same towards you, yet he had suddenly changed? Or has he always been cold and distant?

3. Let him know that you are prepared to give the relationship another try. Sometimes, all it takes is a heart to heart talk where you both would realize that getting back together is what you both want.

4. Do not pressure him nor make him feel guilty about causing you pain. Do not make him feel that your happiness depends completely on him. Just give him hints that you do value the relationship and you're prepared to work on making it a better one.

5. Have an open mind about what's happening. Accept that even if you've done your best, there's a possibility that he had made up his mind to give up on you. In that case, learn to accept defeat and move on.

Relationships take a lot of work and only two committed persons can make it happen. If you had once been trapped in an unfulfilling relationship, and do not see any hope for it now, then open your heart to other options. Start meeting new people and move on.