Tired of mind games when it comes to dating?

Modern research shows us that using a cool head will help your chances of success in the romance arena. If you have begun to develop feelings for someone, but are uncertain if the feelings are mutual, its even more tempting for you compared to knowing straight away that the feelings are reciprocal. Vying for someone's affections is all to do with the thrill of the chase, the satisfaction and ego boost that comes with pulling off the challenge. A potential love interest will ultimately fall for you more quickly if you don't give in too easily.

Be careful with your mission to master the art of playing hard to get, or deliberately showing a semi level of interest in order to bag your prey. Appearing as though you are hard to get is sexy, but playing too hard to get will send the wrong signals, its a fine line.

Its an art form mastering how to be evasive and still ending up achieving your goal. Modern singles are very clued up these days and can easily determine others that are not sincere. Smart singles are also easily able to pick up on whether someone is conniving rather than sexy.

Emailing someone you have met online dating - Same rules apply.

If you are on the net and receive an email reply from someone you saw on an online dating site, don't shoot off a reply that very second. If you do, the recipient could think that all you do all day is sit at your computer surfing online dating sites. Wait at least a few hours, but again, its a fine line, you don't want to appear as though your not interested, so try and reply within 48 hours.

They want to know that your interesting. Call them when your out and about, perhaps at the shops or waiting at the traffic lights. You want your new friend to think your an out and about kind of person, but don't make a habit of this. Also try calling them at home after 9pm when they have wound down for the day and you can both enjoy some conversation without the distractions.