What to Say to Your Ex Boyfriend to Get Him Back - Win Him Back With This

Are you struggling with what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back? Finding the right words to say in a situation like this can be a struggle. The problem is that this is generally a highly emotional and tense situation for both of you. It's far too easy to take one step further only to find yourself taking two or more steps in the wrong direction and losing any ground you've gained before.

How do you know what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back? Don't you wish it were so easy that anyone could do it? While the odds are good that you have some idea of what he wants to hear you need to dig deeper and tell him what he needs to here. Give these three things a try for starters:

1) Let your boyfriend know he was right to call it quits. When he picks his jaw up off the floor and recovers from the shock of you agreeing with him he's going to find more questions than answers. Needless to say he'll be thinking about you long after you let him know how grateful you are that he called things off now rather than later. The other reason this works so well is because it's the complete option of what he is expecting from you. Keeping him on his toes builds a sense of mystery. Agreeing to the break up makes you seem "unavailable" and as a result infinitely more attractive to him.

2) Make sure he knows that you've learned a few painful lessons from the mistakes that were made while the two you were together. This allows him to see how much you've grown and evolved since the end of the relationship (hopefully there's been a little time for that growth and maturity). Tell him you're sorry for the pain you've caused him and hope you'll one day be able to redeem yourself in his eyes.

3) Tell him what he really means to you. If you can't put it into words then maybe he's not the man for you after all. Tell him how much you love him, what he's taught you, and how much of a difference he made in your life when you were together as well as how much of a hole has been left in your life since his absence. He needs to know that you appreciated his contribution to the relationship and he wants to know that it was noticed and is missed.

Three things need to be made abundantly clear when you decide what to say to your ex boyfriend to get him back: appreciation, respect, and contrition for the best possible outcome.