When He is Not Sure About the Relationship

Have you ever been in a dilemma situation in your relationship?  You meet this wonderful man, he is sweet and nice. He understands you and seem too good to be true. The fact is that he is, he is too good to be true. The problem starts when you realize that he is not opening his true self to you, he is keeping something from you. When you ask him to share with you, he said that it is not the time yet. 

You know that something is wrong and you know that it is coming, but you ignore that feeling and keep dating with him. After going out and dating with him for a while, he starts to tell the truth. He is saying that he is dating other woman beside you. You felt like a lightning struck you in the middle of the day. You feel cheated, you feel humiliated and fooled. You are so angry with him, of course.

You know there is something that he has been hiding but you never expect that reality to come, not from him. He said sorry and apologize to you and tell you that he has made a decision that he wants to be with you and not with the other woman. But it is too late, you ask him to stop contact with you. 

After a while, he starts to calling and messaging you. He keep saying that he is sorry and he really wants to be with you. He ask you for a second chance to prove him self. You are in a dilemma, on one side you are afraid, on the other side you do have a feeling for him. Solution for this situation is too think clearly for your self. Tell him that you need time to think about this and ask him to respect your decision for this one.

Then, if he accept and respect your decision and faithfully wait for you in the process, it means that he is sincere with his feelings. Give some time, a week or a month, the best suits for you. Give him a chance to prove him self.