The Lack of Communication and Divorce

When people get married, they think that they are the perfect couple until they find themselves to be getting a divorce. There are many reasons for a divorce, but communication seems to be a big one. When a couple has poor communications between them, they can be suddenly wondering who the other person is. When there are no lines of communication in a relationship there, is little doubt that the relationship will eventually end in divorce. People have more free resources and the ability to make a marriage stronger. There are several different ways to learn how effectively to communicate with each other.

The rate of divorce yet still seems to increase due to the lack of communication between the partners. Divorce has become something that in the past was not acceptable, yet it is now an everyday occurrence. When there is a lack of communication relationships seem to fall apart. The partners in a healthy marriage seem to have a more open way of talking with each other than others do. They discuss everything to be sure that they are on the same page, so to speak. Divorce is commonly done because of this lack of being able to talk openly to each other, and express their feelings and emotions.

Some areas that a good communication between the couple include:

* What their personal interests are

* What they expect from each other

* Future goals and someplace they want to be in a certain period

* Children to have them or not

* Pets

* Buying or renting a house

* Careers or jobs

* Being a homemaker or not

These are only some things that should be talked about openly to help make sure that both partners know what the other feels and thinks. These topics can have an extremely large impact on how day to day live with each other can be. If they do not agree on some simple things, they may not agree later on much bigger areas of their lives or changes that occur over time. This can result in a communication difference and can feel stuck in a relationship that is no longer what they want.

Knowing and talking about how they want their lives to be is only one part of whether a marriage will make it or end in a divorce. Having children can sometimes bring a couple that might be on the verge of splitting up, back together. If a marriage, is unplanned or based on a teen pregnancy, or pregnancy at all that might not be planned could cause resentment with the couple. There can be times that the lack of communication will tear what seems to be a strong couple apart.

Having a decent communication from the beginning and working on it could very well save a marriage, yet if there is none it can end in divorce. The lack of understanding how each other feels and what they are concerned with will only produce a wedge between any couple. Divorce because of this has become extremely common in the past.