Masturbation and Self-Stimulation Masturbating has many natural benefits, as it fulfills physical and psychology needs in people of both genders. It i...
Masturbation and Self-Stimulation
Masturbating has many natural benefits, as it fulfills physical and psychology needs in people of both genders. It is an activity all human beings engage in, to some degree. Pleasuring the self is necessary, because touch is a human need. Masturbation allows men and women to experience sexual stimulation early in life, so they will approach sexuality with a more mature readiness physically. Masturbation helps adults to relieve stress, feel more relaxed, release sexual tension, but also is a coping mechanism for daily frustrations in life.
The Benefits of Gentleness Become Clear
Sexual relief is a necessary component for being compassionate and sensual. These are psychological capabilities, which are generally associated with being gentle. This is where the term for being a gentleman comes from in males, it refers to being a gentle man. Gentleness is a trait that inspires personal well-being, sensitivity, sensuality, positive thinking, and emotional empathy. A person who is able to touch themselves and express physical self-love, will also understand the need to be gentle to other human beings. By giving pleasure to your own body, the main benefit is self-esteem. Thus masturbation is good for the mind, body and soul.
It's Easy to Gently Guide a Partner
Masturbation and self-stimulation play a very important role in adult sexual interactions. When a man or woman is comfortable with touching their own body, it is much easier for them to express themselves with another person sexually. Since they will be familiar with how their body responds to masturbation, it's easy to guide their partner. People who are comfortable touching themselves are more at ease. They are able to be gentle and patient, plus they are less likely to have sexual hang-ups or negative body image. It makes common sense that sex will be more natural and enjoyable, if someone likes their body enough to achieve orgasm.
Stopping a Climax in Progress
For men, masturbation equals better stamina in the bedroom. Males who masturbate regularly have greater control over their orgasm and are more likely to perform cunningulus. Many males practice edging while they masturbate. This is a method of delayed ejaculation that keeps sexual arousal high, but stops at the point of climax progressively. Edging can be done by stopping and starting, or with abrupt squeezing of the penis. Both styles are well known as part of tantric sex practices, but can be done successfully and pleasurably by any man.
No Fantasies are Required
Self-gratification is its own reward, so it isn't always necessary to fantasize during masturbation. Some research indicates that men fantasize sexually more than women, during self-stimulation. Men tend to be visually oriented during masturbation. Males are more likely to visualize fantasy scenarios including threesomes, bondage, and more aggressive sexual behaviors with members of the opposite sex. It is unlikely that males will act on their sexual fantasies. Women are more atmosphere oriented, when masturbating. Women are also more likely to fantasize about people they know and want to fulfill their wishes at some point.
In Conclusion
Statistically 90% of men start masturbating 18 years of age, some daily or less often. In the same age grouping, only 35 to 40% of women pleasure themselves. Although the female masturbation statistics rise over time to 80% with women in their 60's or older. In these more enlightened times, the benefits of masturbation should be socially acceptable and guilt free for all individuals. The sexual satisfaction that is derived from masturbation is healthy for men and women, but is also just fun.
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