An article that will help and aid you to choosing the correct places to bring your date on her first date!
Picture this. You are at the top of your game. The weather is perfect, you look outstanding (tips on grooming), you pick up the courage to call the woman of your dreams and she said yes and you are all set to go to your very first date. However, you are at loss because you do not know where to bring her, what kind of activity you should engage in.
Fear not, as this article will give you tips, advices and ideas on the different places that you may want to bring her go. Some of these ideas are better than others and this could ultimately determine your future relationship with your date. Following these suggestions will help you focus on the places that you should go.
The Movies (2/5)
The first thing that you may suggest is movies. You probably picture yourselves in the movies with your arms over her, she lying on your shoulders and the both of your sharing pop corn together. I suggest you to think twice. Romantic as it seems, the movies is not the best option for the first date. Staring at a large screen for 2 hours with someone you barely know anything about in complete silence will not allow you the opportunity to get to know one another.There after, you will probably drop your date off at home with you know nothing new about her except for the fact that she loves “Harry Potter,” give the movie 5 stars and likes her popcorn with extra butter. Movies can be incorporated but should not be the primary focus of your activity. You may want to try putting movies after some activities on your first date but really, leave this anti-social activity after you know a lot about her.
The Amusement Park (1/5)
Going to an amusement park on a first date could be fun, right? Think about it, you can acquire that great adrenaline rush and then BAM!! You have automatically bonded with her, shared what felt like a near-death experience and now you are happy to be together, alive and well.However, think about the possibility of going on a roller coaster and then vomiting your lunch all over her lap. This is the worst-case scenario, which would prove to be disastrous and ruin the chances of a second date. This being said, keep the amusement park plans for a date in the future because at least if you vomit, you will be comfortable enough with each other to forgive, forget and make fun of each other until eternity.
Dinner with the Family (0/5)
Dinner is a great idea for a date; but taking that special someone straight home to the family for a first date could prove to be too early for such an event. Picture this. You have just met her probably not knowing a great deal about her. (Both of you probably only have a few conversations before meeting up. However, your whole family focuses their attention on her being the guest. Both of you could not even have a one on one conversations because your family lambasted with questions on where she live, what she work as, where is her hometown… Worst still, your mom and dad assume that you know some information about her life and background. Saying that Jeanie is from Malaysia and then having her correct you in front of your parents that she is in fact from a Singaporean might be a little bit awkward. Save the family dinner for a time until both of you are ready to tie a knot together.Mini-putting is fun, active, and a great place for competition, flirting and conversation. This inexpensive activity can be found indoors offering a glow-in-the-dark atmosphere, or outdoors. Therefore, it can be planned for any kind of weather. If your partner bends the club or throws it out of frustration that they lost, maybe this date isn’t such a good idea.
Ice Skating or a Picnic (4/5)
Skating on ice is a great way to break the ice on a first date. Ice skating is a fun recreational activity where you can hold hands, while having fun and trying not to fall and embarrass yourself. It is a good first date as both of you will not feel awkward as both of your attention focus on trying not to fall. You may want to master ice skating before going on the first because embarrassing yourselves in front of here will most probably affect your self esteem and your confident and you will probably think that she will not like you at all (In fact, she thinks that you are funny).Following ice skating, a great idea would be to find a café where you can get hot chocolate and cuddle up to get warm again. Or, packing a picnic and heading to a provincial park for a hike is another inexpensive idea. You may also make your own sandwiches to show her your sincerity and sending a signal that you can cook. Of course, this idea is only good for nice weather, nevertheless, it can be a great first date idea on a beautiful summer day.
A Museum or Art Exhibit (3/5)
An educational date is not for everyone, but an intellectual pair might find this sort of first date appealing. Examining art or historical artifacts can be a sure way of igniting sparks between two individuals who realize they have the same appreciation for such an activity. From then on, they can examine similar interests and a successful first date has been achieved.
A Sporting Event (4/5)
Assuming she likes the sport you are intending to take her to, a sporting event can be a wonderful idea for a first date. You can watch the game while making some conversation, have a couple drinks and you are bound to have an enjoyable time. You might even be spotted on the ‘couple’s camera,’ having your first date broadcasted in front of a massive audience, which can be a great way to break the ice.There are a lot of ideals for a first date. This is just part one of the article. Do not worry too much over your first date. Pick one activity, have fun and remember to call her the next day to do a follow up and get another date with her!
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