How to Win My Girlfriend Back After Cheating - 3 Steps to Win Your Girlfriend Back

First of all you be very happy to know that many couples have got back together again after one of them has cheated. Some couple have said that their relationship is now much stronger than ever. So if you are really sorry for your mistake and sincerely want to get your girlfriend back, here are 3 steps that will help you win her back.

Step 1

The first thing you should do is apologise to your girlfriend and let her know that you made a dreadful mistake and how sorry you are. If she is very angry and refuses to speak to you, don't make the mistake of harassing her and begging her to talk to you, as this will only drive her further away. Instead write her a letter expressing how sorry you are and what a huge mistake you have made. Assure her that it will never happen again. Tell her how much you love and miss her and that you want her back. Let her know that you will wait until she is ready to talk and that you won't contact her again until then.

It is important that you keep your word and don't contact her or harass her in the meantime. Trust is now a big issue, so make sure you wait until she is ready to talk to you.

Step 2

When your girlfriend is ready to talk to you, be prepared to be open and honest about the affair. Don't expect her to settle for a quick apology. She may want to talk things through, so also be prepared to listen to her without getting defensive or arguing. Let her vent and rage at you if she needs to. Allow her let her feelings out.

Step 3

Trust is going to be an important issue for your girlfriend now you have cheated. Be prepared for her to be more suspicious of you and to check up on you more often than before. But you must be very patient and try to understand how insecure you have made her feel about your relationship. You must therefore do everything you can to make her feel secure in your relationship and able to trust you again.

Winning your girlfriend back after cheating is going to be a bit tricky but it really is possible if you know the right steps to take.