What is really going on with you?

What’s really going on? What is causing that inner turmoil within your body? What is causing the discord, what is pulling you apart threatening to tear the very fiber that holds you together?

Are you not supposed to be happy, in control, in charge of your life and enjoying the life that you were born to live?

Then why are you feeling dissatisfied, unfulfilled, and unhappy? What is this silent restlessness? Why can’t you just be satisfied with what you have?

Perhaps you are career driven and have many responsibilities. Your professional qualifications and expertise speaks for itself.

You finally got the job you had desired all this years, the job of your dreams and now that you have it, you are wondering why you even desired it! The job pays well and you are in the right position, but you want something else, something more, another job and this is not it. What is really going on?

Perhaps you have wonderful friends and family whom you have been avoiding lately because you have been searching for something.

You don’t even know clearly what it is you are looking for, but you feel the need to be alone, to stay away from social activities and to kind of cut down on fun time. You would love to mingle but you feel deep inside that the time is not right. More than ever the phrase there is a time and place for everything is becoming your Mantra! What is really going on?

Perhaps everyone thinks that you are the luckiest person in the world because you have got things moving in your direction, you have always been the envy of many, you come from the right family and from the right side of the tracks, but deep down inside, you do not feel lucky, you are hurting inside and you don’t know why?

You just want to scream out for help but you dare not, you want people to see you for who you are, to know that you are not super human, things are falling apart in your life…what is really going on?

Perhaps you are the invisible person who wants to be visible, to be recognized, to be someone in society, to move from nowhere to somewhere and you are frustrated because nothing seems to be happening.

You constantly wonder why things seem to be working for others and not for you? You feel like a victim of circumstances and you just want to scream and tell people “ Hey! Stop! Look at me, consider me, value my contribution …I am IT! I am the real deal! What is really going on?

Outwardly everything may seem perfect but inwardly the battle to stay intact rages on!

If you identify with any of these situations, then perhaps you need to take some time to find yourself.

How to find yourself.

To find yourself you need to ask yourself three questions.

1. Who are you?

Consider your values, what do you stand for; think about this question from the truth that you know deep down inside. Do not be influenced by what you or others think that you should be. Give yourself honest feedback.

2. What do you want?

Consider your dreams, your desires, and your expectations. And write each one down. Ponder about each one carefully. Think about why “ what you want” is really important to you.

3. Where are you now and how will you get where you want to be?

Consider where you are right now, how you feel about where you are and think about how to get yourself out of that situation and into the place where you want to be. You have to change your perspective and be creative to get an answer to this question.

Finally, get in touch with your true self and begin to lead a fulfilling life!

You know the answer, it lies within you.