The Great Law of Attraction Sabotage... Your Friends!
Here is one of the most effective ways to "screw-up" when working with the Law of Attraction. Make sure you surround yourself with people who support your limiting beliefs and focus on what is wrong with life.
Here is one of the most effective ways to "screw-up" when working with the Law of Attraction. Make sure you surround yourself with people who support your limiting beliefs and focus on what is wrong with life. When you do this it is super easy to keep thinking the same thoughts you've been thinking,
vibrate at the same rate you've been vibrating and stay in the same place you have been. Ugh! In fact it has been said that when you look around at the five people you spend the most time with you are looking at who you are or who you are becoming.So who do you spend time with? Sit down and make a list of the 5-8 people you spend the most time with. Put a smiley face next to the names of the friends who are usually upbeat, who make you feel good about life and who give you energy. Put a sad face next to the names of the friends who drain your energy, who complain a lot and who make you feel not so good about life. All of us are born with intuition but this wonderful sense is often covered up. When we first meet someone, even before we speak to them our intuition is sensing their energy. We tend to attract people into our lives with similar energy to ours. That's the Law of Attraction working. When you look at your list of people you can observe what your dominate energy level has been. If you see that it has been quite low don't despair. As you change so will your life!Often people ask me,"What do I do about my list of friends? Most of them are "energy-drains" and "complainers"?" A beautiful aspect of energy and the Law of Attraction is that so much happens naturally. As you begin to focus on what you desire, what you are thankful for and loving life, your energy will rise. As your energy rises you will attract higher energy people into your life. Your new friends will be on the same path you are and together you will support and grow each other. Some of your current low-energy friends may grow with you and will become your new high-energy friend. Conversely, the friends you have who choose to keep complaining and stay low- energy will gradually drift away. They will not be drawn to hang around you now that you are no longer whining and complaining about life. Occasionally you may have someone in your life who is so toxic that you will have to end the relationship. Although that can be hard, it is often one of the greatest gifts you can give to yourself. Do it as gently and respectfully as possible and then move on.The rewards of surrounding yourself with wonderful, positive people are huge! It will make your journey to living in alignment with the "Law of Attraction" so much easier. The choice to focus on what you desire and what you are thankful for will happen almost automatically when the people closest to you are doing the same thing. Not to mention the beauty of the friendships when both of you are focusing on the positive. It all starts with you. Focus on what you want not what you don't want. Be thankful for all you have. Watch your words. Make sure they are positive and affirming. Most of all feel good and you will begin attracting wonderful positive people into your life.