Submission and Obedience: A Deeper Look

May 20
22:53

2024

Joyce C. Lock

Joyce C. Lock

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Summary: This article delves into the complex topics of submission and obedience within relationships and religious contexts. It explores the nuances of these concepts, backed by statistics and scriptural references, to provide a comprehensive understanding. Whether you fit into the majority or the minority, this piece aims to shed light on how to navigate these roles in a way that aligns with both personal and spiritual well-being.

Understanding Submission and Obedience

The Statistics Behind Submission and Obedience

Studies indicate that approximately 80% of individuals,Submission and Obedience: A Deeper Look Articles regardless of gender, conform to traditional roles of strengths and weaknesses. This conformity often makes it easier for them to follow established teachings and societal expectations. However, for the remaining 20%, these traditional roles may not align with their personal or spiritual inclinations.

Source: Pew Research Center

The 80-20 Paradigm

If you find yourself in the 80% majority, this article might not resonate with you. However, if you belong to the 20% minority, it's likely that your partner does too. In such cases, marriages tend to thrive when couples abandon conventional expectations and embrace the roles that God has uniquely designed for them.

Personal Experience and the Need for Clarity

Having endured an abusive marriage and faced gender-based discrimination in religious settings, I felt a profound need to understand God's true intent for submission and obedience. This journey led me to some enlightening discoveries.

Submission: A Biblical Perspective

Scriptural References

  • "Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God." — Ephesians 5:21
  • "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord." — Colossians 3:18

These verses suggest that submission is a mutual act, not confined to gender roles. It involves listening to the needs of others and prioritizing their true needs over personal wants.

Redefining Submission

Submission is not synonymous with obedience. If it were, husbands would also be required to obey their wives, which is not a widely supported doctrine. Instead, submission means being attuned to the emotional and spiritual needs of others, including one's spouse.

Practical Application

In practical terms, submission involves:

  • Listening to the heart's cry of others
  • Prioritizing their true needs over personal desires
  • Being a vessel for God's love and healing

Obedience: Spiritual Leadership

The Role of Spiritual Leadership

Obedience in a spiritual context means recognizing and following spiritual leadership. When someone is genuinely led by the Spirit, their guidance will resonate as truthful and aligned with God's will.

Scriptural Insights

  • "For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church." — Ephesians 5:31-32

Paul's reference to Christ and the church suggests that the relationship between a husband and wife mirrors the spiritual relationship between Christ and the church.

The Great Mystery

A Bishop is to be a husbandman, married to his church, just as Christ is married to the church. In turn, the church (as a wife) is to submit to the needs and guidance of their Bishop, to the extent that it aligns with God's will.

Gender and Spiritual Equality

Biblical Equality

  • "There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for ye are all one in Christ Jesus." — Galatians 3:28

This verse emphasizes that in Christ, all are equal, regardless of gender or social status.

The Role of Women

Scripture often uses the term 'woman' symbolically. For instance, both male and female were called Adam in Genesis 5:2, indicating a unified identity in God's eyes.

Conclusion

Personal Accountability

When a spouse is not spiritually inclined, individuals are accountable to God for their own souls. God will guide each step, ensuring that one's actions align with His will.

Final Thoughts

  • "And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free." — John 8:32
  • "For by one Spirit are we all baptized into one body, whether we be Jews or Gentiles, whether we be bond or free; and have been all made to drink into one Spirit." — 1 Corinthians 12:13

Ultimately, submission and obedience are about aligning with God's truth and allowing His Spirit to guide our actions and relationships.

Source: Bible Gateway

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