3 Ways To Get Back At An Ex (to Get An Ex Back)

Often, break ups lead to unhappiness between 2 people and the injured party might feel the urge to get back at an ex. They plot and scheme every possible way to make the other party feel uneasy or unhappy in hope of feeling better. However, in most cases, they do not. You know why? Plotting and scheming against your ex will make you look like a petty bad loser. On top of that, you allowed your emotions to take control of you and make you someone you are not. So use these 3 simple ways to get back at an ex - to stay true to yourself and get your ex back too...
Way #1: Break off all source of communication
This might require you to act a bit against your intuition of maintaining contact with your ex. After a break up, couples usually think about the happy times they had together and will find ways to get back a bit of that nice feeling. By not allowing your ex to have that 'nice feeling' they had when they were with you, it makes them needy of you. And soon, they will consider patching things up with you. This is the time you are able to get your ex back. However, give it some time. Do not rush to patch things back up because it will seem that your ex can get you back whenever they need you. Let your ex want you back for about a month or so before accepting them.

Way #2: Go out and have fun with your friends
Since now you are a free man or woman, call your friends out and enjoy yourself. Take this chance to 'bask in the sun' of single-hood where you do not have to report your location and activities to anyone. This does not require you to date or give special attention to the opposite gender. Hang out with your buddies/soul-sisters as much as you can because very soon, your ex is going to want you back. It is amazing how this technique works... You get to hang out with your friends, feel happy and enjoy yourself and at the same time, make your ex realize that they have lost someone precious. And when they do realize that they need you back, use the same concept as you did in #1 - play it cool (but don't overdo it). In about a month or so, give your ex another shot at your relationship.

Way #3: Be yourself
You must have read from other experts that advise you to improve yourself during this period of break up right? They are correct. But what they didn't tell you is that, on top of learning new stuff, do not change your personality. You may have acquired a huge amount of knowledge during this period of time but remember that it was your present character that made your ex fall in love with you in the first place. Maintaining this personality of yours, accompanied with a handful of new 'add-ons', will definitely attract your ex as much as, or even more than they were before.