Getting Over a Break Up Quickly - 3 Secrets to Win in Love Again

The unthinkable has happened - you have to learn ways of getting over a break up quickly. Your partner has decided that the relationship will not work out and the only thing left to do is to leave. Human relationships are peculiar in that way. It takes two people to make it work, and just one to call it a day. However, if your partner walks out on you does that mean it's over? Well, if you're the partner who was left behind and are willing to put in some time then these three secrets to win in love again, will direct your steps back to the doorstep of your loved one's heart.
Tip #1: Don't rush into anything take time to figure things out
Before you pick up the phone and think of giving your partner a call, it's best to take some time to figure out what the cause was for them to walk out. They left because of something that was lacking in your relationship and the sooner you figure out what it is, the sooner you can start fixing it. This is absolutely necessary to rebuild a relationship. 
Those who have been through a period of separation have welcomed that period of silence. It has served them well, in terms of time to think over the walk out. This is when partners will usually start second guessing their decision to leave and may even initiate the first step to mend the fences. If they are not taking the initiative to patch things up, read on.
Tip#2: Take it slow and be the person you were when you first met
The usual reaction to this suggestion is, 'I'm still that person!' In actual fact, you are not and you can never be the same person you were when your relationship began. At the beginning, you were attentive and would cling on to every word that was spoken, then routine set in and your partner just became another attachment in your life. However, you would miss that part of your body if you happen to lose it wouldn't you?
So remember those initial days of your relationship when you couldn't wait to see each other. The fun and happy conversations you use to have over the phone, over coffee, then over dinner. That was the time when everything was new and had its sparkle. You loved being around them and vice versa. Learn how to become that person and more importantly do not come off as being desperate to get them back. And when you've given them the space, they will call and when they do, show them that you are still that person they fell in love with before issues got in the way.
Tip#3: Stay positive
This is easier said than done. It's only natural to get desperate and want to speed things up, and set up casual meetings through friends and acquaintances. However, making such attempts or even suggesting that you get back together will only drive the two of you apart. Be committed to the task at hand and visualize your goal. Being positive will help in working through this time. It's not only you that has to work through issues, your partner feels the hurt of separation too - even though they don't show it. They need to learn to trust, that the person they fell in love with, actually resides in you somewhere.
Whether you've made the mistakes, or your partner is to blame, getting over a break up quickly is not easy. When you do meet, don't spend time taking turns to dish out blame. There's plenty of time to work out your issues as a couple, but the first step is to work towards being able to win in love again. When it does eventually come across that you want a life with only your partner, the dedication to wanting that one person and no one else will eventually win them back.