Pick up artists have been using these routines for ages to achieve dating success, and you can too! Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing super...
Pick up artists have been using these routines for ages to achieve dating success,
and you can too! Let's discuss a few of them. There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better.
Don't expect me to go over some of the older, tired routines like "the jealous girlfriend" or "the cube." We're going to review some of the newer approaches.
The Present Routine - You can have a lot of fun with this and get a lot of information that you can parlay into other conversation topics.
It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly. He called you when he got to his destination (tell them LA or Tokyo or Paris) and told you he needs you to go out and get a gift for his girlfriend. He said to spend up to $200 and he'll pay you back. The problem is, you don't know what to get her and so you're asking them to help out.
The beauty of this approach is that whatever the girls tell you is revealing about themselves. If one of the girls, for instance, recommends that you get the girlfriend a gift certificate for a day at a spa, you've learned something crucial about the girl who made the suggestion - that she loves to be pampered. If a girl suggests expensive things, accessories like Prada and YSL, you can be pretty confident that she also likes those costly accessories. Think about how useful this information can be - especially if you're patient and work at it, getting the girls to give you advice beyond the obvious. What if a girl tells you to get the girlfriend a book of poetry by a particular author?
Dating for Dummies - I've encountered a lot of different routines, and this is one of the funniest I've heard of. It's a great icebreaker and it helps women to feel really relaxed around you.
The first step is to go out and get a book on dating - one of the more insipid ones, with a title like "Dating for Dummies" or something really obvious like that.
Carry it with you into places you'd expect to meet women, like clubs, taverns, or whatever. Open it up to the chapter about pickup lines you should never use.
This is when you each find out about the other's sense of humor. Go up to a woman you'd like to get to know better and, holding the book in front of you so she can see the title, start reading some of the bad pickup lines out loud. Don't be bashful, go for the gusto! The worse the line, the better it is for your purpose - look for "Do you come here often?" and "Hey there, baby, what's your sign?"
If she's got any sense of humor at all, the girl will laugh and let her guard down. You can even put on an innocent air and ask her if it "worked."
Pick up artists have worked on these routines and perfected them, and now you can use them as a way to break the ice and start talking with the attractive women you've been dreaming of. Your purpose in meeting here, though, is to establish a rapport that you can use to ask her out or call her. To establish rapport, you have to open up wo her, share something personal about yourself. Try a meaningful story about an incident at work, or maybe something that happened at school. You'll find that when you open up to women personally, they'll likewise open up to you, and you'll actually feel the connection building.
It's not my style to lie about who I am, and I hope that's true for you as well. That's why I'm not going to share any of the many canned PUA routines I've heard. Think back on your life and you'll see that there are tons and tons of interesting stories - you probably never looked at them from the perspective of using them as stories that show what a great guy you are.
You're a PUA-in-training. As such, you should be building your own routines based on your own life experiences. Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women. Once you're more familiar with PUA routines, you'll probably be able to take some of your own life experiences and turn them into good PUA routines of your own!
