Cougar Dating and the men that Cougars Date

Cougar dating. Another one of those modern sayings that is catching on. Have you heard of chubby chasers? Men and women who prefer the larger partner or lover? Now we have toy boys being seen as the natural choice and those who prefer to go out with a modern, mature women. Not to be confused with a gold digger going out with a sugar daddy.

Usually the toy boy offers a fit, lean, attractive and seemingly healthy body and in return he wants a female who is also fit and healthy but older with more experience in sex and life. Strictly speaking not just any female can class herself as one. true cougar is experienced at sex, enjoys sex, very sexy and modern, broadminded, uninhibited and fun. She is far more likely to hold down a very well paid career than to be unemployed. She dresses well, she has class and sophistication. An old soak laying on a park bench, a single mum who has let herself go and dresses scruffy and spends all day taking care of a baby are not cougars simply because they are female and women. 

The term cougar dating s not just about age but also attitude and personality. The term is attached to an animal because these women are seen to prey on or need younger men as lovers and they find it easy to attract men as lovers. They have high expectations. Not for them a quick fumble in the back of a car. They expect a good night out, romance, flowers, gifts, holidays, attention and respect. They love sex but they can be fussy about who with without going without. They know how to have fun and are popular. They are not ageing slappers. They have a lot to offer. Many make the mistake of thinking that any female who reaches a certain age is a cougar. This is not so. She must also have the attitude and lifestyle - Madonna, Joan Collins, Cher and Barbara Streisand are examples. Of course the ones you know and meet are less famous and rich.

Women who can get a young man based on looks, personality, attitude without being famous and rich. If a young man thinks he can just offer her sex he is not going to get any takers. She has heard it all before and she can snub such offers. Someone as well heeled as Joan Collins would make sure the person is also charming, attentive, smart, good looking, well dressed and well heeled himself. She is not interested in a gold digger or leech. She is not wanting to be a sugar mummy or seeking a gigolo or loser to cotton on to her so that he can improve his lifestyle. And she would not enjoy the company of someone who has to do that to get by in life.

Advice columns written by the agony aunts for those who write to them with their online agony aunt letters are full of stories of women who have thought they were one and gone with a younger guy - then been financially fleeced of their money or found out he is married. The real thing is smarter and has a lot to offer and more in control. Agony aunt websites and newspapers receive hundreds of mails from people who have regretted dating or sleeping with a guy. You can also get cheap email psychic readings about your dating future. And many turn to a new age unexplained mysteries forum for advice on the best way forward with dating.

Either he becomes obsessive or he has nothing to offer and is too immature. Some are little boys pretending to be men. Living with parents! No job! No money! No qualifications! No sense of responsibility. No way could they take care of a woman, they cannot take care of themselves.

The cougar dating woman is looking for a guy who is very much like her - able to offer as much as her - but younger. And she does not compromise. She may date lots of men at the same time and does not want to be tied down or limited or told what she can or cannot do. 

What is it like to date a cougar? Cougar dating is not for those who are new to dating and extremely young. You need some experience and confidence too. Otherwise she will run rings around you and eat you for breakfast.

Guys thinking they can get a cougar dating them beware. These females are fussy. If you do not treat her well you are soon history. He needs to be able to pay her attention, cook her a decent meal, hold an intelligent and educated conversation. The student who lives in a tatty bedsit or room will not get anywhere with her even if he is well read. She is not going to slum it. She is a huge challenge and not for the faint hearted. The cougar dating woman is looking for security, love, excitement and the good things in life all rolled into one, from a young good looking and single man who can shower her with attention. She will not end up being a bit on the side to a married man. She is not insecure, clingy and needy and under selling herself. Cougar dating.