Sometimes the thought of dating a younger woman passes an older man's fancy and there are some good reasons why. Younger women tend to be more attract...
Sometimes the thought of dating a younger woman passes an older man's fancy and there are some good reasons why. Younger women tend to be more attractive and are more open to new ideas and enjoining new adventures. This freshness and vigor are traits welcomed by an older guy.
Some gentlemen are a little ill at ease as the thought of dating a younger women - they shouldn't be. Let's toss what can only be limiting beliefs:
Myth #1 - Young women seek to date only men their own age.
Fact - Young women find the grace of maturity and experience that comes with age as a sexy trait in a man. Showing the vigor of being in control,
accompanied by the calmness maturity it affords, is the main front needed here.
It's unseemly to behave like a kid, she won't be turned on by that. A young woman can find obnoxious young men if that's what she wants. She wants maturity.
You've survived the slings and arrows of the years. When she looks to you she sees the calmness and the surety you carry.
Myth #2 - Age difference is the main problem when dating a younger woman.
Fact - If age difference becomes an issue, it's because you allowed it. We already know why she's around, she wants maturity. Don't let notions of impropriety dispel your image of confidence and maturity, the very things she's looking for.
Relax. Worries about such are worthless. See what happens. Love is what love is. It has no solid definition. Embrace it.
Myth #3 - She's looking for "Daddy Bigbucks."
Fact - Many people wrinkle their noses in a knowing fashion when they see a younger woman on the arm of a man. The truth be known, that young woman usually has a thousand things other than money on her mind. She wants an introduction into an adult world with maturity and class. She's been to one too many frat party.
Though this is the 21st century and women are "liberated", it won't hurt to pick up the tab for dinner, no matter if others may say, "See, I told you so." She probably expects to pay every now and then, especially if she's out with a contemporary, you know, the starving student or struggling artist; but you're so much more to her than that.
Don't become an over-indulgent walking wallet, but you can be old fashioned and pick up the tabs.
Self-confidence and a new vigor can be won by dating a younger woman. There's no reason to not avail yourself should the opportunity arise. Your life is in your hands, not in those of society, or stereotypes, or silly notions. Mold it as you see best. You have one life on this earth. If part of that life involves a younger woman, why cast it off? Enjoy!
