Does age matter in dating?

Many people think that age matters in relationships. I hold a different view. It is a convention that a guy should be a few years older or that you should be the same age for a relationship to work.

However, things turn out differently for many people. The number of girls dating younger guys is growing steadily. And the number of relationships, in which a guy is substantially older, has always been high.

We are different and want different things. For many girls over thirty dating a younger guy can be very appealing. You can feel young as though you are in your twenties. In fact, you never need to grow up. You can look at your young partner and feel as young as him. More importantly, you can have fun and if you have things to talk about it can work perfectly fine. This is particularly true if you don’t need a guy to support you. If you can take care of yourself, and doing a good job of it, you may not care about your guy being mature. You need not to look for a peeping-tom manager in a dated Volvo driving down to his boring dead-end job every morning to support you and your kid. If you are into something fresh and different – why not! Go for it! You can even have a kid by a young guy. This is exciting. This way you know that your baby will be adorable and healthy. Growing older together can also be fun. It depends on your state of mind and on your relationship.

On to the older guys. This can be very good too. An older guy can appreciate you for what you are. He can praise your youth and you can feel younger than you are. He can try harder to mend his way to tune in with you. He can be more caring and appreciative of your relationship. He can also be very young at heart and you can have a lot of fun together. Also, he has probably achieved something in his life. And you can be proud of him. You can talk about meaningful things and life experiences. You can find a perfect understanding of your weakness and forgiveness of your mistakes. It can be very gratifying.

In conclusion, there is no hard and fast rule for age, when it comes to dating. In the end of the day, love rules. Love determines whether you are good for each other. Love dictates us to leave our current partners and settle with the new loved ones. Love destroys and builds. Love rules this world. And this is wonderful after all! If you are really serious about finding your match, why not try online dating agencies? It can work really well.