Does Your Ex Want You Back Even Though You Cheated?
In the initial days after you broke up over your cheating, you probably had plenty of fantasies about your ex coming back to you with hat in hand aski...
In the initial days after you broke up over your cheating,
you probably had plenty of fantasies about your ex coming back to you with hat in hand asking for a second chance. Your ex was hurt by your cheating and you were hurt by how easily your ex chose to end the relationship.
Now, a little time has passed and some water has flowed beneath both your bridges. Now you are talking again without going into full blown battle mode. You're even getting the feeling that your ex is interested in doing something a little more than just talking to you.
The thing is, you were hurt too and you don't want to be the one to make the first move if that isn't what's on the mind of your ex. So, how do you know when your ex is interested in getting back together and working things out?
Sometimes, the greatest rewards require the greatest risks. A leap of faith at a time like this might be just what the doctor ordered.
Here's the thing. If you are miserable without your ex in your life, what do you have to lose but a little bit of pride by being the one to make the first move. Things can't really get any worse than they are now right?
But, if you need a little more convincing that your ex might be interested in a second chance for your relationship, these are some sure signs that your ex has something more than friendship on his or her mind.
Your Ex is Initiating Contact
When your ex is calling, texting, emailing, Facebooking, Tweeting, etc. to you without being invited to do so or your ex is the one making the first move in all these things then your ex misses you.
The longer your relationship went on, the greater the odds are that your ex was much more than just a romantic interest. Your ex was probably your best friend as well. It could be the friendship that is missed but the odds are just as good that it is the whole package, romance included that your ex is interested in restoring.
Are You Always "Bumping In" To Each Other?
Does it feel like your ex is always in the places you happen to be going? If it isn't an effort on your part to be in the places you believe he or she will be then the odds are good that your ex is the one making the effort to be where he or she believes you will be.