Don't Forget That Russian Brides Have Families Too

People have found love in a number of different ways, and many men have turned to Russian dating agencies to find their potential wife amongst the many "Russian brides" websites out there.

But If you are thinking taking a Russian bride, there are a few things you should take into consideration before finally popping the question. One of the most important things to consider is her family. Just like in any marriage, your bride comes with a history. Before she walks down the aisle, it is worth taking the time to get to know about her and her family, because you do not want any surprises months down the line.

Russia's recent domestic history has been a difficult one. Most Russians struggle below the bread-line, and have for many years. A large percentage of the country, almost 10%, are unemployed, while many Russians also have to hold down two or three jobs just to survive. For many it is the family unit that keep things together, depending on each other to survive. In many areas of Russia it is the strong community spirit that keeps people alive.

There is a strong possibility that your potential Russian bride has these values. Most Russians still have strong traditional family values and have a great deal of respect for their elders. They also believe it is their duty to care for their family members when necessary. The elderly are so often neglected, and in a country like Russia, where pensions are extremely low, this is no different, so younger family members normally take care of their elders when they reach a certain age.

The country is also still very patriarchal, and while a woman may work, the system hardly ever allows for her to rise the top of an industry, or earn a salary equal to a male colleague for that matter. In many Russian homes finances are shared by the entire family, with everyone responsible for a debt, and all savings shared amongst them all. In a typical Russian home, the man is seen as the leader who's decisions will effect everyone.

So when you are in the courting stage of the relationship, make sure to speak about family, and if possible meet hers, because they will become your family after the wedding. Find out about their health, many Russian children will want to care for their parents if they are very ill one day, so keep these conversations open, in case something like this happens one day.

There are many urban legends about Russian brides from human-trafficking to money-scams, but there are also a number of reputable dating agencies out there, where many love stories have began. For many Russian women they are looking to improve their lives, to have more opportunities, and of course for many, it is to find love.

Just always remember that it's easy to fall in love with a stranger, but it's always better to marry someone you've got to know.