The Way to get your wife back

There should never be a claim by man that he can understand a woman. It tends to be joked about, but it is true. When it comes to expectations from each other, both sexes have different views and approaches. Understanding problems in the marriage and fixing them becomes difficult due to the different approaches to the marriage the husband and wife bring. It is even more difficult to understand how to get your wife back. Understanding her reasons for walking out will help get her back in your life. No understanding of the breakup means a man cannot understand why it happened and be able to fix any part he played in it. When a marriage ends, men find themselves completely surprised at it. Making changes and a true desire to reconcile will be needed. Change will not occur if the men do not know what they need to change. Letting your wife know if the love you still have for her will in no way hurt your efforts to get her back. Your efforts will be hurt if you grovel. Be honest with her about your feelings. No love or appreciation felt by her from you could be the reason. Attention is forgotten when the man does not have to win his woman anymore. After they have wedded, women still desire the courtship attention. The man who is constantly wooing is the one whose wife will stay. You have to see how important that romance is the key. You can try using the moves on her that you did during courtship. It might help. Responsibilities that appear in the marriage that were not there in the beginning such as children and jobs can take away the quality time the couple once spent together. You had fun and was adventurous in your courtship and early stage of your marriage to your wife. Before you know it, time has flown by and so has those feelings. Bring back the spontaneity to your relationship, planning surprise trips, or even something as simple as dinner out. Take her out on a nice date rather than watching the big game on TV. Jealousy, according to many people, is a good tool to use in motivating her to return to you. Used too much however, this may only serve to make you angry. You could be trying to get even. Even if you do give the relationship another try, if you are harboring these feelings, you will only fail again. You may be alright going out on a casual date. You don't have to cut off your entire social life. Instead of becoming jealous, she may decide that since you have moved on so well, you may be worth another look. She may see you as far more attractive as you grow your level of confidence. This is a last note on how you can get your wife back. Get yourself in better shape. If you allow yourself to begin wallowing in self pity, getting fat and out of shape, you will make it harder to get her back. Be willing to do whatever you must to stay in shape, join a gym or start a workout, in order to keep yourself attractive to her.