How Can a Threesome Spice Up the Bedroom Experience?

Many people believe that human beings aren’t monogamous by nature. Threesomes are a testament to that. But like every other thing related to human experiences, they work differently for different people.

Whether it works for you or not, there’s no use denying that you have, at some point in your life, fantasized about a threesome. In research, it was shown that around 80% of the participants, men, and women alike, fantasized about having a threesome. However, less than half the number reported actually having experienced them.

A gap exists between fantasizing about threesomes and actually having them. A number of factors come into play here, including fear, taboos, and insecurities. However, there is only one way of knowing for sure: having a threesome.

You can decide whether you want to continue having it or not, but everyone should experience it once in their lives. Here is how threesomes spice up the bedroom experience.

It’ll Shake Up Your Routine

Well sorry for being Captain Obvious here, but threesomes literally spice up your sex life. A change from the daily, mundane routine that you and your partner have built, particularly if you’ve been in a relationship for long.

It’s a chance to do something new and exciting in the background. And it’s a guarantee that things will never go back to being the same again (in a good way)!

Explore and Experiment

Threesomes give you a chance to explore your sexuality, and your partner’s. if you’re single, it can help you see what kind of relationships you lean more towards. If you’re having a threesome dating as a couple, it’ll not only help you learn new things about yourself but your partner too. You will discover new ways, news positions, and new kinks.

For many people, particularly those who have been with their partners from a young age, it’s a chance to explore their sexuality AND experience sex with new people, all the while staying (and strengthening) their relationship with their partners.

Once you know yourself and your partner better, you’re bound to have a much more pleasurable bedroom life.

Double The Pleasure, Double the Fun

Again, stating the obvious. Having sex with one person is plenty of fun on its own. Imagine having it with two people! Even better, imagine having it with two people you’re attracted to. Say you’re a girl and there’s another girl you’re attracted to. But you have a boyfriend. What would be better than getting to have both of them, together?

In a threesome, you have to put in the double effort. However, the return is doubled too. You’ll have double the pleasure and definitely much more fun!

It Gives You a Good Ego Boost

Feeling desired is an instant ego boost for us humans. And being able to provide pleasure to the ones we desire is even a bigger ego boost.

What’s better than both of these though? Multiplying it by two. Nothing works your self-esteem more than knowing that you’re desired by not one but two people, and at the same time, you’re able to satisfy not just one but two people.

And we all know it. More confidence means better sex anyway!