How to Get a Girl's Number

Okay, if you’re reading, I am going to hope that you could by now go up to girls and have a decent conversation.  The next step is getting a girl’s phone number in order to spend time with her again.

The simplest way to get a woman's telephone number is to basically tell the woman to give it to you.  That’s right.  It is that easy.

Simply tell her something similar to, “Hey, I really loveed meeting you.  Give me your phone number and let’s hang out sometime.”

Notice:  This is different from asking for it.  the distinction is sophisticated.  Whenever you ask the woman for her phone number she has the opportunity to say “no.”  When you tell her to give you her number, she's more likely to do it.  People, and primarily women, will merely follow suit if you take charge of a situation.  The truth is, they often like it.  Telling a woman to give you the woman phone number is an instance of taking the lead.

Perhaps you have have experience with this.  Perhaps you could get a girl’s number, but you’ve had the experience of calling the girl up later on only to discover it was a bogus number.  I have never had this happen before, but I know this must be really disappointing.  Especially if you had a good connection with the woman.

Here is a number of ideas on how to get a girl’s phone number and make sure it is the woman's real phone number.

First you take out your telephone and tell her to give you the girl's telephone number.

She starts yammering off the telephone number and you type it into your phone.  As soon as you’ve got the number, call up her.  Right there while in front of the girl!

If her mobile phone starts ringing, you’ll be certain you have got the real number.  Tell her something such as, “There, now you have my number as well.”

This is nice because it not only lets you learn instantaneously if you have got the her legitimate phone number.  It is somewhat bold and indicates confidence, but the most beneficial part is the fact the girl now has your telephone number in her cell phone too.  Why would you want her to have your telephone number?

No, she almost certainly will not call and ask you out in the morning.

It is worthwhile because after you call the girl in a couple of days, her caller ID will reveal your name, not some strange phone number.  Think about it.  If you were the woman, which phone call are you more likely to pick up?  One from “Brian?” Or one from “(555) 123-4567?”

But suppose the girl's phone doesn’t ring when you call the phone number?  Well, she gave you a phony phone number! Do not get all frustrated about it.  Tell her something relaxed and casual such as, “I guess you don’t really want to hang out with me?  Too bad.”

At this point, she may well decide to give you her correct phone number or let you know she has a boyfriend or some other sort of reason.  If this happens, I wouldn’t really want to go out with the girl.  Believe it or not, you just tested the girl and she didn't pass.  She just revealed herself as a dishonest girl who probably won't give it to you honestly.  Why would you like to spend more time a girl like that?

So that is the best way a woman's number.  Not a big deal at all.  I’ll say that it can be a bit uncomfortable to call the phone number right then on the spot, but the rewards are more than worth any uncomfortable moment you might experience.