How to Get Him Back In Your Arms After a Breakup

If you are thinking how to get him back after a break up, in that case let me let you know that it is achievable. But, it takes a lot more than pleading and apologies to get your ex boyfriend back.

I know after a relationship ends you feel very hurtful, confused and emotional. In situation like this it is a familiar mistake to plead or beg him to take you back. However acting this way can seriously affect your odds to win him back. Actually, if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back, you ought to really make an effort to make yourself attractive again. Do you think pleading, begging and apologizing is attractive? It's not.

What is at work here is a huge human psychological phenomenon, consistency. That signifies if your boyfriend decided to end the relationship with you, they are going to make an effort to be consistent with their decision. Whatever you tell them, or how reasonable you may be, they are going to find a way to encourage themselves that ending the relationship was the right thing to do. Being consistency is what keeps us sane and make us feel like a reasonable person. If we are not consistent with our decisions and our beliefs, we are going to look illogical and insane not only to people around us, but as well to ourselves.

That is why, there is no need trying to beg or apologize and plead him to return to you. It might have been effective before the relationship ended. however as soon as the decision is made, it is going to be more or less useless.

So, how to get him back?

You must make use of reverse psychology. In your approach you ought to be a little more subtle. At times, simply stopping contact with your ex boyfriend can do wonders. They become conscious of how much they love you when they can't have you anymore. Other times, it is going to require a great deal of persuasion and work from your side. However like I said earlier, you ought not to try to persuade him with logic. As an alternative, if you simply attempt to reignite the spark between the two of you, it is going to work like magic.