The seduction should commence at an angle, indirectly, so that your partner only progressively becomes conscious of you. Haunt the periphery of your partner's life!
Create A False Sense Of Security
Approach circuitously. If you are too direct early on,
you risk stirring up a opposition that will never be decreased. At first there must be no part of the seducer in your behavior.
The seduction should commence at an angle, indirectly, so that your partner only progressively becomes conscious of you. Haunt the periphery of your partner's life-approach through a third party, or seem to improve a relatively impartial relationship, moving progressively from friend to lover.
Settle an occasional "chance" encounter, as if you and your target were meant to get to know each other-nothing is more seductive than a sense of destiny. It will cause the target to feel a false sense of security, then strike.
Send Mixed Signals
Once people are aware of your presence, and maybe obscurely curious, you need to affect their emotions
and interests before it settles on someone else.
What is obvious and noticeable may attract their attention at first, but that attention is often short-lived; in the long run, un clarity is much more influential. Most of us are much too obvious-instead, be hard to figure out.
Send mixed signals: both tough and tender, both spiritual and earthy, both innocent and astute. A mix of qualities proposes depth, which fascinates even as it confuses. An elusive, mysterious aura will make people want to know more, attracting them into your circle. Create such a power by hinting at something opposing within you.
Rule The Art Of Insinuation
Making your targets feel dissatisfied and in need of your attention is necessary, but if you are too evident, they will see through you and become defensive.
There is no known defense, however, opposite insinuation-the art of planting ideas in people's minds by dropping evasive hints that settle in days later, even appearing to them as their own idea. Insinuation is the supreme means of influencing people.
Create a sub language-bold statements followed by retraction and apology, usual talk combined with charming glances-that enters the target's unconscious to transport your real meaning. Make everything suggestive and do not describe anything in detail.
Create Temptation
Tempt the target deep into your seduction by creating the suitable temptation: a glance of the pleasures to come. you must awaken a desire in your targets that they can not restrain.
Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to make real, and hint that you can lead them toward it. It could be wealth, it could be adventure, it could be forbidden measures; the key is to keep it mysterious.
swing the prize in front of their eyes, postponing satisfaction, and let their minds do the rest. The future seems developed with possibility. motivate a curiosity stronger than the doubts and anxieties that go with it, and they will follow you.
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