I Still Love My Cheating Ex - What Should I Do Now?

Are you asking: "how do I move on alone when I still love my cheating ex?" It would be so much easier if you could just turn off the love you feel for your cheating ex. It would make the days seem less empty and the nights infinitely less lonely.

Unfortunately, the fact that your ex hurt you by cheating doesn't just cut the ties that you have together. It doesn't end the love you feel for your ex. It also doesn't mean your ex doesn't still love you.

But the real question remains. What do you need to do about the fact that you still love your cheating ex? Is there anything you can do that will relieve that aching, empty spot in your heart?

Honestly, you've reached the point where moving on is hardly an option. You've done your time crying into your pillow at night. You've spent your energy and efforts at making a new life for yourself and all you've discovered is that the only life you really want is one that includes your ex - even though your ex cheated on you.

The cheating hardly seems important to you anymore at all. You know that things will have to change so that cheating is not a problem in the future. But, what you want now, more than anything, is to get your ex back fast.

Here's what You need to do to get Your Cheating Ex Back

1) Come up with a killer apology. You may not be the one who cheated but it's likely that there were things you did in the course of ending the relationship you may not be proud of. Now is not the time to worry about laying blame or saving face. Dig down deep and offer a sincere and heartfelt apology to your ex.

2) Learn to hold your tongue. There's no need for you to become a relationship doormat in order to get your ex back but there are times when, for the sake of the relationship, you can learn that it's not so important to have the last word or even to always be right. Silence can really be golden when you are working towards a goal of saving your relationship and/or getting your cheating ex back.

3) Decide what's important and let your ex know what you've decided. Sometimes the one thing your ex needs to see, more than anything else, is that a true and genuine change has come over you. The best way to do this is to let your ex know that you've re-evaluated what is and isn't important in life and love.