Pressing her buttons in all the right places.

Get her to make the first move.

It's not as hard as you are thinking. Here's a documented fact on Wikipedia. "Nearly 80% of women initiate sex". This is not referring to a scenario where by the woman initiates a conversation, rather by initiating sexual contact by transmitting distinct signals, placing the ball/s squarely in the mans court.

Think about this for a moment, when you're out in a busy bar, try standing in the centre of the room, you are then three times more visible to all the women in the bar, regardless of where they are. At the very least, you are increasing your chances of meeting someone by simply putting yourself out there.

Your next approach should be to scan the room for any faces you may recognize, or that seem familiar, women are far more willing to approach someone they recognize, as this can remove any trust issues or barriers she may have. Next- catch her eye, and hold the contact for 2-3 seconds, smile, look away. Try this one more time so you know for sure that there is a definite moment happening between you both. Only this time, don't look away, and don't hesitate, raise your glass to imply you would like to buy her a drink.

Moving on to the next date.

Dr Yvonne Fulbright author of, Touch Me There, suggests "it's important not to agree with your date on every view point" Women are drawn towards socially dominating guys, not yes men.Be objective during conversation regarding her beliefs, but do your best to bring the conversation back to agreeing with her point of view (whether you agree or not) so she feels a sense of achievement. Friendly debate is one thing, but tipping your drink over her head is something else.

Getting out of jail.

The moment you walk through the door, her death stare tells you she knows exactly what went on during the bucks weekend, or perhaps one of her single friends found your secret online dating profile. When your lady starts to give you a piece of her mind, step towards her looking her straight in the eyes, which will speed up your blood rate of flow and will kick start your brain ready for a retaliation. Given that this probably won't work, (go to plan B) look incredibly embarrassed and express your deepest sorrow. Research from the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology suggest that 90% of women will forgive their guy if they can pull off a genuine forgiveness plea.

Striking when the iron is hot.

In order to gain her understanding on touchy subjects, wait until her pupils are fully expanded, it's a scientific fact that both men and women are very receptive and easier to persuade when their eyes are dilated. However, waiting around all day for someone's eyes to expand may not always be so practical, so try dimming the lights, which will also cause her pupils to dilate. Once you have addressed the burning issue, if she glances to the left, she is more susceptible to an emotional approach by you, if she glances to the right, she is looking for the cold hard facts.

Sexual conditioning.

You will be well served to ensure that each time you have sex (with her) that it finishes very positively. She needs to know how great it felt, and just how well she measures up to your needs. Praising her will give her a tremendous surge of the feel good hormones dopamine and oxytocin. She will soon associate pleasuring you with feeling good about herself - win-win!