We may never notice but some of the things we do actually will drive our men into the arms of another woman. Yes, it is partly our fault; we cause them to seek what they need from another.
Ladies,
I need to talk straight to you about your relationship with men. They are totally different from us, and that difference make us unable to understand them.
We may never notice but some of the things we do actually will drive them into the arms of another woman. Yes, it is partly our fault; we cause them to seek what they need from another.
Men need so little from us, but we sometimes forget they are men and not another woman. We talk and talk and talk and we want them to talk about their feelings also. This is so hard for men; they are not in touch with those feelings the way we are.
Men will be with you in your environment and not change a thing if you're happy. Men will live in pink and lace, if you're happy, they do not care. Honestly do not ask him what he thinks about the color of the paint you want.
He will nine times out of ten say to you That looks fine, sweetie and you may say this to him in return, Honey, please tell me what you really think, I want to know?
Now you have put him on the spot, he has already told you it looked fine to him. Now he is not sure what you want from him, I swear, he doesn't know what he should say to you that will be right.
This is what he may be thinking to himself, What's wrong with the color, is there something I should have seen and I did not, I can not tell if there is something wrong with the color. Poor man, he has no idea that you do not think there is something wrong.
Men only really want us to be happy, they will go out of their way to help us do what ever we want as long as we allow them to be what they are; men.
So when your dressed to go out to dinner; we always ask, how do I look? we do not and should not do that, all you have to do is look at him, turn around slowly and watch his eyes, they will inform you of his true thoughts.
Gaze into his eyes for 30 or so seconds and smile a sweet feminine smile, he will come to you, without speaking a word. This is a powerful communication that you can have with your man.
male is to give,female is to receive. You should be able to talk to him, through a look or a gentle touch. Allow him to give of his own free will; do not ask for him to give to you.
Trust yourself when it comes to your womanliness, your femininity, your mystery. Your ability to shine in his eyes comes from knowing your inner feminine side and allowing his outer manly side.
We have bad habits, we as women use to ask men many questions, and we want their response to be their true response, so sometimes we will repeat the question as many times as they give us the answer we wanted to hear.
Get out of the habit of asking a second or even a third time. When you re-ask the same question, shows you think that he is not being honest or you do not trust him.
If you think his answers are simple and direct because he is a man, not because he is hiding some thing from you. Men think there is no need to evaluate every situation, they will give you the first answer that comes to their mind when you ask them a question.
Men and women are different; it is the differences that need to be understood for you to have the happy,
successful relationship you deserve.
