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I'm sorry to hear that your girlfriend broke up with you. It sounds like you were to blame since you cheated on her. I'm going to be honest, that wasn't very smart on your part. Anyway, you have had a change of heart. You realize that you messed up and are ready to do whatever you need to do to get her back. You are ready to get back with your ex girlfriend. Right?
A poem from the heart is a great way to let her know how you feel about her. But, you've got to realize that a single poem isn't just going to fix everything. Right now, your ex-girlfriend is feeling betrayed, unloved, and broken. to get back together with your ex girlfriend, you are going to have to prove to her that you love her and are never going to cheat on her again. You need to show her that you have learned a lesson.
This isn't a quick fix relationship project. There is no simple way for getting back together. This is a fragile process and free relationship advice is what you need. Well.... If I were trying to get back together with my ex girlfriend. I would definitely write her a short note to APOLOGIZE to her. I would then write her a poem from the heart to show her how much I love her.
Don't BEG for her back! This is a huge mistake that I have seen many people make. It will backfire in your face and probably make her want to run away. Women do not like their men begging, even if they act like they do. They want a MAN. They want you feel comfortable in your arms.
Anyway, leave your phone number on the bottom of your notes, letters, and poems and leave a little note like, hope to hear from you soon. Don't seem desperate, just show her you care and that you want to be with her. Now, I can't tell you exactly what to say in you letters and poems because every situation is different. I can, however show you some guidelines to follow when writing to your ex in hopes of getting back together.
#1 APOLOGIZE
You messed up, not her. Make sure she knows that you realize that and ask her to forgive you.
#2 AGREE with the BREAK UP
You have to understand why she broke up with you. Agree that she did the right think and ask her to start over as friends.
#3 DO NOT BEG
We went over this just a second ago.... Don't beg, it's not a good idea, really.....
#4 BRAG
Brag about her to her in writing. Think of every little thing about her that you love and exploit it. Use descriptive imagery as much as possible to show her how much you notice and pay attention to her. Still, try to keep it short and simple...
#5 TOUCH HER HEART
Remind her of the great times you had together, bring up specific events and be sure to let her know that you miss holding her tight. You could talk about how you miss her breath on your neck, or how she looks into your eyes, or how her smile melts your heart. Make her remember then make her want more.
#6 COMMITMENT
If you want to get back together with your ex girlfriend, show her that you are committed to fix relationship. She is probably feeling betrayed, lonely, and heart broken right now. She may have a difficult time coming back to you, so it is up to you to show her that you love and will not cheat on her again.
Getting your ex girlfriend back means you are going to need to be patient. What you did to her may have hurt her badly and can take some time for her to want to come back to you. Don't give up. Keep lines of communication open at all times. It may be a good idea to not be seen around other women who would flirt with you or hang on you. Start now and you can get back with your ex girlfriend.
