What Will it Take to Get Your Ex Back?

Are you trying to get your ex back? Chances are you've already tried a few things that haven't worked and that's what's led you here. You'll be glad to know that all is not lost. It is possible to win back the love of your life even if you've had a few setbacks in your efforts so far.

The problem most people face is that we tend to follow our hearts in matters of love. For the most part that works well. However, when your heart has been completely shattered it doesn't always lead you in the right direction. It will take some time for your heart to get its bearings back.

During this time you're going to have to ignore everything your heart is screaming at you to do. It will not be easy but the rewards are worth a little pain in the beginning. The first thing you're going to have to ignore from your heart is the strong urge to be front and center with your ex at all times. This can lead to late night phone calls, drive bys at all hours of the day or night, and even text message terrorism.

These things will have your ex eyeballing a restraining order rather than lining up to take you back. You're going to need to think outside the box and away from the heart a bit if you really want to get your ex back.

Begin by leaving your ex alone for a little while and giving your ex the opportunity to really know how much of a whole your absence leaves behind. Letting your ex miss you is the only way for your ex discover that maybe the grass isn't greener without you. Your ex will never be able to do that if you are always present.