Win A Guy Back - 4 Simple Tips

There are some ways you can learn, simple ways, that will help you win back your guy back if your relationship has hit a roadblock. These 4 simple steps will help you fan the flames that brought you and your boyfriend together - even though he may already be dating another person.

First of all, turn yourself into more than just a friend of his. Be around him as much as possible, let him know that you're available when he needs to get something off his chest. Being non-judgmental, open-minded, is the key. A man doesn't appreciate being judged or made to feel bad when he opens up and shares his emotions and thoughts. To gain this true intimacy is the key on which you must focus to win back your guy.

You don't want to be treated like a doormat, you don't want to be a pushover - that's what to focus on in the second step. You don't want to be seen as an anxious puppy, too eager to please. You're setting yourself up to be taken advantage of and you don't want that. Keep on an even keel. Let him know your opinions and feelings in matters of importance. Be careful, you do want to let him know that you have emotions and thoughts, too. But you don't want to come across as judgmental. Don't demand that he take your position on certain issues, that's being judgmental. Understanding when you're being judgmental and when you should be just sharing your thoughts is important.

Third, bring up old memories you both cherish. If you're trying to win your guy back, you probably had some very nice times together. Keeping those pleasant memories in mind will help him see why he liked you so much in the first place. Absolutely do not bring up bad times, for instance some heavy arguments you've had, that will backfire.

Letting him know how you feel about him should be your fourth move. Don't be like a silly school girl, make sure he's on the relationship track, then you can start telling him what a wonderful guy he is. Following the first three steps should make you successful in getting yourself back into his heart. When he starts checking you out when you're not looking, or if he starts flirting again - you're there! Remember, he might need a little help in the beginning because he may very well feel embarrassed about ever dumping you. Help him out, help him save face. That's an important way to win a guy back. When the time is right, let him know that you think that you two made a good couple and that it would be worth it for both of you to get back together.

So, these are the steps you need to take to get your beau back. Take it slow, be persistent. Be patient. Even if things aren't unfolding as quickly as you like, the positive thoughts you're placing in his head will make him come around and make him want you back.