Summary: Last fall, I faced my fear of flying on a tiny "Crop Duster" airplane en route to the grand opening of a new Black bookstore, CushCity.com. This experience taught me that fear and faith often go hand in hand, especially in writing and business. Embracing uncertainty can lead to unexpected opportunities and growth. From moving to LA with no connections to leaving a 23-year career in social work, my journey has been marked by Divine Serendipity—God's way of working small miracles in our lives.
Last fall, I found myself boarding a small "Crop Duster" airplane in Memphis, Tennessee, heading to Houston, Texas, for the grand opening of CushCity.com, a new Black bookstore. My heart raced, and I wanted to escape to the nearest bus station, my preferred mode of travel. However, time constraints forced me to confront my fear of flying. Whether it's a DC-10, a 757, or a small plane, flying has always tested my faith.
On the return trip to Memphis, I boarded another Crop Duster, this time with only six other passengers. When the flight attendant asked a man to sit in the back to balance the plane, I dubbed it "the bicycle built for two in the sky." This experience forced me to do some serious soul-searching.
As a literary entrepreneur, I realized that my growing business required me to fly. This revelation led me to understand that faith is inherently tied to uncertainty. If you feel fear when starting a new business venture or writing project, you're likely on the right path.
Reflecting on my life, I see that fear and faith have propelled me through significant turning points. In 1981, I moved from Detroit to Los Angeles, knowing no one. The initial years were filled with fear, but the experience made me more assertive and resilient. This journey contributed to my growth as a writer and publisher.
Three years ago, I left a 23-year career in social work to pursue my passion. Today, I have no regrets. This leap of faith led me to discover what I call Divine Serendipity—God's way of working small miracles in our lives.
The term "serendipity" originates from Horace Walpole's book, The Three Princes of Serendip. It refers to the accidental discovery of something good. I like to think of Divine Serendipity as God's way of orchestrating small miracles in our lives.
A year ago, I was waiting for my agent to call. Today, people reach out to me for assistance with their books. This shift is a testament to the power of Divine Serendipity. Just before attending the CushCity.com event, I faced my fear of flying again to attend the National Association of Black Journalists conference in Phoenix, Arizona. This experience led to valuable connections for my future.
In October 2000, I flew through stormy skies to Houston, Texas, to embark on a cruise to Cancun, Mexico. Despite the ten-foot waves during hurricane season, I felt at peace. Surviving the Crop Duster flights strengthened my faith, proving that little miracles happen every day.
Faith is knowing that when you leap from the edge, either the ground will appear under your feet, or you'll be taught how to fly. Embrace your fears and uncertainties, for they often lead to the most significant growth and unexpected opportunities.
By embracing fear and uncertainty, you open yourself up to Divine Serendipity and the small miracles that can transform your life and career.
