Why Structure For Children Is So Important

Aug 27
10:42

2014

Samantha Knowles

Samantha Knowles

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We usually want to help our kids in each way feasible, and this is a organic quality that is developed into us from the second we grow to be mother and father. Developing up, our kids want a good deal of aid and it really is fantastic whenever we can aid them in their endeavours. There will come a stage although, when a line is crossed that leads into the territory of also much assist.

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Because he thrives and depends on routine,Why Structure For Children Is So Important Articles I do my very best to keep it the same. So, on school days, we get up at the same time, have the same breakfast, and get dressed quickly. Then as a reward, we usually watch a few minutes of his favorite cartoon.

This difficulty in transitioning through change also applies to my older children. Every Monday morning, my daughter seems to have a cough or a headache. I know that part of her aversion to beginning the Monday school routine is part acting, but more than anything it's her reluctance to move through the change from the weekend back to the weekday. Now that I understand her challenge with change, I help her. I usually play along and tell her to get dressed and let's just "try school for the morning." We have an agreement that if she is still not feeling well after the first few school periods, then I will come and pick her up. Sure enough, once Emily gets to school I almost never hear from her.

Children crave structure even though they don't think they do. By establishing morning and evening routines you can help your children through many transitions: from home to school, from school to home, and from home to bedtime. When I travel to the West Coast, I wake up every day at 5:30 a.m. to speak with my kids before they get on the school bus. I feel tired from getting up so early, but these calls keep me connected and remind my children that I am always available even if I'm at a distance from home.

Travel is not part of all working mothers' timetables, but this tip applies to any type of work schedule--from a regular work day with a late meeting to an extended business trip. By checking in at set times you are effectively establishing a system both you and your child can depend upon and look forward to.

And, since guilt can grow when you have not connected with your children, this step will really make you feel like you are part of your family environment. I hope you find these tips to work for you! Guilt in all working mothers can grow if you are not careful. Travel, although tough can be fun for everyone if managed correctly. Take heed and become a proud working mom! I know I am.

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