Divorce Attorney – Do You Need One?

If you are facing a separation from your spouse, no matter how amicable you think it is going to be, you need the services of a divorce attorney. Once the process starts, most divorces become a little messy, no matter how well intentioned the couple may be at the outset.
You are probably wondering whether or not it is possible to go through a separation without one. Yes, in most states you can proceed without professional representation. However, you need to thoroughly research the laws in your state to ensure you do everything possible to protect your legal rights. However, it is legal and possible to do the process on your own. 
If you are going to be dividing property or handling custody matters for children, then you are always going to be better served with a divorce attorney. When it comes to ensuring that you have enough control over what happens to your children, do you really want to trust yourself without professional help? Even if you think you will be able to agree with your spouse over what happens to your children, circumstances can change. If your spouse decides to pursue a different custody arrangement in the future, having a lawyer set up the original agreement gives you a tremendous amount of protection.
A lawyer also knows the local family court, any judges you will be facing, and other details about the filing process in your area. This inside information is going to be highly beneficial, particularly if you run into a judge who tends to side with either the husband or wife in these situations. Also, a lawyer knows when and how to file all documents necessary to the process, as well as how and when to file petitions and motions in court.
A surprising skill offered by a divorce attorney is the ability to negotiate. Many couples are surprised to learn that negotiations are not as easy as they thought. You may not realize, for example, that your spouse has his or her heart set on keeping the house, rather than selling it and splitting the profits as you think is best.
Finally, a divorce attorney saves you time. You can file pro se, or on your own, but you will spend hours researching, filling out paperwork, and submitting it to the courts. If your time is better spent earning income for your family or preparing your children for the changes they are about to face, then consider hiring professional help.
Of course, hiring a lawyer does cost money, so you may not think the investment is worthwhile. In general, it is worthwhile if you have sufficient financial resources to give you a strong opinion as to how things are divided. It is also worthwhile if you anticipate any type of battle over your kids. If you are concerned about the cost, call the divorce attorney you prefer, and ask about payment arrangements. You can likely work something out so that you can afford to have representation and keep your best interests at the forefront of the process.