Separation is Complicated, Let a Divorce Attorney Be Your Guide

Separation is a highly emotional process, unfortunately, it’s also legally complicated. For this reason, it is a good idea to talk to a divorce attorney before making any decisions with your spouse. It’s hard to take a step back and be objective when you are in the middle of such a difficult period. If you’re not sure what you want to do yet, you may feel like it would be too calculated or cynical to seek legal advice, but the actions you are taking now could have ramifications for you in court proceedings and it is best to have the guidance of a professional with a good understanding of your local laws.

Did you know that if you make the decision to leave the marital home before legally separating you can end up paying more alimony? Chances are you didn’t know that. Divorce law is always intricate, and on top of that, the rules are different depending on what state you live in. The decisions and actions you make in your highly emotional state can have a huge impact on the rest of your life. This is why it’s important to have the guidance of a lawyer. 

It’s important to remember that speaking to a divorce attorney does not necessarily mean you will end up getting separated. A lawyer can help you assess your situation objectively as a mediator. In some cases this can lead to reconciliation, or the decision not to separate. The lawyer should not be viewed as a threat of action, but simply a means of protecting both of you. A lawyer can help you navigate a lot of tricky waters before making any decisions. If you are able to come to agreement on certain difficult areas before proceedings, you will be able to have an easier cheaper divorce.

There are many areas in which the guidance of a lawyer will be invaluable. If you have children, this is especially true. Not only must you consider questions of custody and possible child support, but your children’s mental health and wellbeing during the proceedings must be considered. When family life is emotionally volatile it can be easy to lose perspective on what is best for your kids. This is one way in which your lawyer’s impartial perspective is vital. A good lawyer will be able to help keep things in perspective and make sure that your children do not get damaged unnecessarily in court. 

Your own mental health and wellbeing is also protected when you have the guidance of a professional. The emotional burden of what you’re going through is enough to bear. You don’t need the added stress of trying to parse through complicated legal issues on your own. A lawyer will be able to objectively look at your issues and help you figure out what sort of life changes you’ll need to make after your separation and how best to proceed so as to ensure those changes are legally possible. The sooner you speak to a divorce attorney the better.