How To Get Him Back And Mend Your Broken Heart

There are some guys who never really appreciate what they have until it's gone. I hope this helps ease your pain and gives you a few ideas on how to win him back.

Unfortunately break-ups are very common today as men have so many interests competing for their time. It's not an excuse but a reality. Very often you are competing against other people in his life as well as his hobbies and work. Sometimes you have to change the dynamics of your relationship to help him see that at some point he has to make a choice between a sound and loving relationship or his selfish desires.

Is it true love on your part that has you on this mission to learn how to get him back or your pride and ego?

Believe it or not, some women have so much pride that the thought of being broken up with sets off a weird reaction or response. They can't accept that the relationship ended and it wasn't totally their call. So they pursue their ex just for the sake of getting back together for the sole purpose of ending the relationship on their terms.

So, please examine your heart and make sure it is love and not pride driving you to try to get him back. If you find that it is pride, please don't waste your time in trying to get him back into your life. It's not worth it and in the end could bring more pain and sadness to your life. If you are motivated by love please read on.

How To Win Him Back Tips

Don't Use Social Media To Make Your Case

Have you seen lately some of the crazy stuff that ends up in Facebook or Twitter or people's personal blog? Some people share the intimate details about their lives and relationship. Some of these social media sites are great places for friends to communicate and enhance relationships. These avenues can also be used to destroy relationships. So make sure that you are using these tools to help you win him back and not push him away for good.

In the case of Facebook and Twitter please don't put negative stuff out there and hope that it ticks him off enough to make him call you. Also, don't stalk him online and bombard him with tweets and F/B messages. The key to winning your guy back for good is helping him reach the conclusion that you belong together instead of forcing him back into you life.

Don't Expect Things To Flow Logically

I'm sure you will agree that sometimes what your ex says doesn't make sense. On the one hand he says that it's over but his actions don't always back up his words. Or it could be that the reasons that he gave for breaking up doesn't make sense.

The one thing that I can assure you is that folks often times do and say odd things when they are in love or falling out of love. It would be nice if things always went according to plans because relationships would be simple, less frustrating and less painful.

So the point is to expect the unexpected and be prepared to adjust your plan to give yourself the best chance to win him back.

I have a friend who was going through a similar situation and my advice to her was to not panic and not do things that made her seem needy, cling and desperate to get her guy back. It's pretty easy to learn how to get him back once you focus on doing the right things, at the right times and for the right reasons. Please hang in there and create the atmosphere that invites him to come back into your life and you will be as happy as my friend is. I look forward to hearing back from you and perhaps you can share your success with others about how to get him back after a breakup.