14 Feng Shui Tips to Create Romance & Passion in Your Life

Your bedroom is where you're renewed, energized and
romantic. It's your sanctuary. Your bedroom will affect
your prosperity, relationships and well-being. Everything
is connected.

Whether you're looking for a new relationship or looking to
enhance an existing one, these tips will set the scene.

1. Create an inviting sanctuary
What is your bedroom saying? Does it reflect who you are,
and set the scene for the relationship you want, or is it a
room you don't think too much about because you only sleep
- or try to sleep there. Want more to happen in there?

2. Let go of past associations
You are affected by the energy of everything in your
surroundings. Does your furniture remind you of the past?
Do you have photos of past partners? Yikes! Let go of
anything you don't want to bring into your present or
upcoming relationship.

3. Make your bed the primary feature
What's in your bedroom with you? Exercise equipment, desk,
computer? This energy will conflict with the purpose of
the bedroom - serenity, romance and renewal. If necessary,
use a screen to separate these different functions.

4. Remove the television from your bedroom
A television will affect your relationships, and your
sleep. The television is a more vibrant, yang energy,
which can make it less relaxing for sleep, and take your
attention away from your partner.

5. Position your bed
The ideal bed position is as far away from the door as
possible, and with a clear view of the door from where you
lie. If you cannot see the door easily, this will set up
an unconscious vulnerability that will affect the quality
of your sleep and other aspects of your life. A solid
headboard will support a strong relationship.

6. Who are you sleeping with?
Your bed holds the energy of anyone who has slept in it.
Support the beginning of a new life with someone by
replacing your bed. And, considering you spend a third of
your life in bed, invest in the best possible.

7. Don't let Clutter Bog You Down!
Clutter affects all areas of your life more than anything
else, and your bedroom is no exception. Clutter here will
be affecting your health, your prosperity, and both
existing and potential relationships. Clutter will prevent
you from creating your dreams.

Don't underestimate the importance of clearing your closet.
Clients report this gives them an immediate increase in
energy and improved feelings about themselves. Give away
anything that doesn't make you feel your best. One client
found herself writing her autobiography after
procrastinating for 4 years. The more you express of
yourself, the better your chance of having a relationship
that works for you.

Clutter is anything unfinished, unused, unresolved,
tolerated, or disorganized. So, this could be physical
clutter, or unresolved issues with your partner or an ex
partner.

8. Get a fresh perspective on your art
Art work is a powerful enhancement in creating your life.
If you're a single woman, having a picture of a lonely
woman walking along the beach will not be helping you
create someone new in your life. Make sure your art is
sending the right messages. Position images of pairs of
things in your bedroom and relationship areas of your home.

9. Make space for a relationship
One client set the intention for a new relationship in her
life, and made space for it by making space in her closet
and in her bathroom for the person who would come into her
life. She added a second pillow on the bed. Within a very
short time she was in a new relationship.

Set your bedroom up for two if you want to create a
relationship. Have matching bedside tables and lamps.
What represents romance to you? Have pairs of things such
as two dolphins, two roses, two candles.

10. Nurture your number one relationship - the one with
yourself. Are you being the person your ideal partner or your
existing partner will fall in love with? Are you fully
expressing your unique gifts? Nurture yourself with your
favorite scented candles, music and sensual fabrics.

11. Think back
What did you allow yourself to do while in love? Allow
yourself to be that person and do those things. Get in the
mood. Write poetry, be wildly sexual, say no to
invitations you would rather not accept. Indulge your
senses. Treat yourself as the god or goddess you are, the
one your partner falls in love with.

12. In the heat of love, what are the things you allow
yourself to believe about yourself? That you are
beautiful, desirable, treasured? You are still that
person. If it’s a stretch to think of yourself in this way,
act 'as if'.

13. Add fresh flowers
Fresh flowers give life to your bedroom, and are a
wonderful treat for yourself. Make sure to discard them
when they begin to wilt.

14. Always celebrate the love you have in your life,
whether its with a partner, friends or family.

* For information on how to determine where the
Relationship area of your home or office is see :
http://www.LifeDesignStrategies.com/BaguaMap.html

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