Learn why your girlfriend has really sent you a text message.
Why would your ex girlfriend send you a text message after you have split up?
Do you panic when you receive a text message from your ex girlfriend? I bet you turn on the jealously,
hurt, anger and pain all at once.
I remember not hearing from my ex girlfriend for ages. Then out of the blue she contacts me.
Then bang out of the blue, she sends you a text message.
You wonder what you should do. Should you reply or not? What should you say or not?
When most men are contacted by their ex girlfriends. Any emotions which they haven't dealt with post the break up all come charging back and at full speed.
Her text can mean any of the following:
1. It actually means nothing, more than what she has written.
2. The only person who decides what it means is you.
3. It is how you react to the words she uses that determine what it means.
If she's away from home, she's bored, homesick and not enjoying it as much as she thought she would. She has started getting back in contact with you because you make her feel safe and secure.
The text means nothing until you decide and feel that it means something. After all, if you Dad wrote the say words Hi, How are you? What does that mean. Your ex means no more than that.
1. If you want your girlfriend back, the more you try and figure out a hidden meaning, the more time you'll be negatively thinking about her and actually pushing her away.
2. It is how you feel which is important, not the words that are written.
So where to from here?
The simplest things you can do are:
1. Learn and really apply all the steps of the Law of Attraction. These steps don't take much time or effort. Then you just have to do them consistently.
2. Learn about EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique). It was your thoughts, feelings and how you reacted to them that got you in this situation. Why not use them to get you out of it and into something bigger and better?
When you use both skills, you can let go of your old negative emotions, i.e. anger, fear, jealousy. When you let go of them. You start acting and behaving differently. This is what starts attracting your girlfriend back to you.
Warning: When you wish for something you might just get it.
