What does it really mean when your ex girlfriend wants to be your 'friend' on Facebook?
Have you received a Facebook invitation from your ex girlfriend? Why does she want to stay friends with you when you've split up?
Hang on a second. Step back and breath for a moment.
You're not along in doing this,
Facebook and other social media sites are causing hurt, pain and jealousy for lots of guys just like you.
Why?
It means:
1. On some level she still has feelings for you.
2. Part of her wants you back. That doesn't mean today or soon, but a part of her does.
3. She's hurting too and can't let you go. She is afraid of losing you.
4. She doesn't want to see you with anybody else, who she things might be better than you.
5. She wants to prove how tough she is and how good her life can be without you.
Being on Facebook or an social networking site with your ex girlfriend means absolutely nothing. What you see, read and hear on Facebook means nothing unless you add your own emotions and interpretation on what you have read.
Words, events, emails, text. None of these mean anything except exactly what they say point blank. Any other meaning is your emotional interpretation of what she is saying. You yourself know that 2 people can go to the same event, see the same thing and have two totally different experiences.
How can you overcome this negative emotional attachment?
Did you know your negative emotions are actually pushing your girlfriend away from you.
Two skills that can really, really help you are:
1. The Law of Attraction. When you use ALL the steps of The Law of Attraction and use the consistently. You can easily get your ex girlfriend back. It happens all the time.
2. Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT). This very simple and transformative technique can change how you feel about yourself and your girlfriend. Any negative emotions you feel towards your girlfriend, is actually pushing her further away from you. These emotions can easily be resolved and dissolved using EFT.
Warning: Getting your girlfriend back has more to do with your own emotions and actions that what she is or is not thinking on Facebook.
It is much easier if you let go of your jealousy and other negative emotions if you want to get your girlfriend back.
