What Can You Do If Your Ex Has a New Girlfriend?

This is presuming he left you and then found a new girlfriend. I'm not talking about if he has cheated on you and moved on doing the monkey swing, finding a new vine before he lets go the old vine. That's a whole other game because he's got more serious issues. That hurts.

I'm talking about if he legitimately found a new girlfriend after he left you.

So whatever you do, don't go snooping into his business, don't check up on him on Facebook, or keep texting him and emailing him. Don't keep in contact with his friends or go to your old haunts hoping to see him. You will only start to seethe and feel bitter and twisted and start to resent that he moved on so quickly when you were still in damage control.

After all he and his new girlfriend are high on endorphins as most people are in the initial stages of a relationship. You need to wait until those hormones wear off before you even think about a plan.

After you've picked yourself up, start thinking about how you were when you first got together before "life" set in. Perhaps you felt because you had him in the bag then you let yourself go a bit, didn't get that haircut as regularly as you used to, didn't make a fuss over yourself.

Well start the pampering machine up again. Do all those things you used to do to make yourself feel attractive. To make him want you. You probably stopped doing those things because you felt he wanted you and you didn't have to try.

Chances are in going through this process you start to feel good about yourself again and if he knew you still wanted him, he's going to start wondering where you've gone because you've stopped contacting him. So when he calls or texts you, that's the time for your plan to start.