First Night Tips

The first night of one's wedding is indeed the most exciting time of one's life. Expectations are sky-high on the first night and everyone desires to spend it in the best way he/she can. Sex being the topmost priority on one's first night must not be ignored or compromised.  It is important that you prepare well beforehand for your first night. Mentioned below are helpful tips to make your first night sex experience as good as you have always wanted.     1. Get Started with Flirt If you are flirtatious, bring trait alive in bed on your first night. Flirting will set the tone for the exciting night. You may start by teasing your partner to excite him/her. Keeping an eye contact with your partner is vital to ensure a fruitful first night sex experience. Do not ignore any opportunity to steal kisses. Complementing your partner in a flirty manner is another way of making your partner comfortable.     2. Put an End to Anxiety and Restlessness To make your partner comfortable is of utmost importance. Communicating is the one and only way to make your partner comfortable. Make attempts to keep the conversation going so that your partner gets over his/her anxiety and restlessness. If you sense discomfort in the room, you should initiate the dialogue without fear or nervousness. During the dialogue, try switching from casual conversation to being romantic gradually and see how she/he reacts to it.     3. Drop Expectations, Enjoy the Moment Expect the unexpected. In other words, expect nothing! Expecting your first night to be as good as you have wanted may as well disappoint you so do not think of the outcome. Forget fantasies, reality is entirely different from fairy tales. If you have expectations and things don't go that way, you will only be disappointed. Moreover, having expectations for the first night may reduce the chances of you spending a wonderful time with your partner.     4. Go Slow Love-making should not be your only motive! Filled with excitement, individuals hurry on their first night. Don't treat sexual intercourse as a task to be accomplished. Light up the mood and move on to the next step. Pay attention to your partner and try to decode his/her gestures. Add some romanticism on the first night by playing your partner's favorite music track or lighting a few candles so that the home atmosphere is romantic.