How to Talk Dirty - The Right Way

A lot of women wish they knew how to talk dirty the right way. It would make things so easy on them in bed if they only knew what their man wanted them to say and how he wanted them to say it. You can start talking dirty to your man the right way, in a way that will drive him wild, with just a little know-how. It's not as hard as you think to do this right, and let's face it, most men love to hear their ladies talk like porn stars in bed. You can do this just as well as any of those porn stars can do, because it's merely talking. It's a skill anyone can learn. Take your sex life into the stratosphere by learning about dirty talk today.

The fact is, timing and tone matter almost as much as what you say. You have to get it all just right, and if you don't have a natural sense for these things, it can feel awkward to try to talk dirty. Have you ever whispered something you thought was dirty into your man's ear during sex only to have him laugh heartily? This happens, and it's not your fault. It's just that you haven't been taught how to talk dirty properly.

First and foremost, any dirty talk you do needs to be completely natural. Don't try to force it, because it will sound fake and that is a big turn-off to a guy. He wants it to be real. Men get very caught up in the idea of their sexual prowess turning on their woman, and it turns them on to think that they're doing it. If you sound fake when dirty talking to him, he'll feel inadequate in bed and this will be upsetting to him. So, only say dirty things if you're REALLY feeling them.

One of the best things you can do is ask him questions. If you feel moved to do something sexy for him, ask him in your most sexy, alluring voice (while looking directly into his eyes) if that is what he wants you to do. For example, if you want to give him oral sex, tell him what you want to do and then ask him if that's what he wants you to do? Go over a few of the juicier details, getting his answer after each 'point'. Don't drag it out into a long list of 35 different questions, 3 or 4 is more than enough for you to use a few choice dirty words as well as keying up his anticipation of what's to come. Say it just right, and really mean it, and your man will practically do backflips to please you in return.

Next, touch him when you talk dirty. The personal contact will make the dirty talk even more alluring. Finally, try to include really filthy words, because guys love this. Instead of using the normal, clinical and boring words for the various sexy parts of your bodies, use the ones that sound and feel most erotic, daring and dirty to you. It's the best gift you can give your guy in bed. If you know how to talk dirty the right way, there's nothing he won't do for you in return.