Science Behind Reconciliation With Ex Girlfriend

Aug 10
07:47

2009

 Jaison Williams

Jaison Williams

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To err is human. While we all tend to commit mistakes in a relationship, it’s completely in our hands to mend the things right. An effort to understand the mentality of women may be helpful in attracting your ex girlfriend back.

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Are you looking forward to the ways to get into the old good terms with your ex girlfriend? You can find your fortune candy to a success in this by a single click of mouse to “Magic of Making Up". As the name says its a magic but this magic is accompanied with well justified reasoning and supporting couples..

If this is true then it’s inevitable to neglect the fact that you have to make a start. The percentage of cases in which women feel no hesitation in declaring it as the quits is greater half of the quarter division. Keeping in mind the inherent irrational features in
most of the women they can’t always decide on the best options for them. In spite of the constant readiness within her to reconcile she would never think of taking a leap across the scene that was created in past during your break up. As a result all responsibilities look forward to you as their master.

The deadlock condition that exists calls for a two approaches. Firstly you have to convince her that the desire within you to reconcile is intense and true. This should be backed by the second task of creating a comfortable level which makes your availability certain to her.

A deep insight to the reasoning is a requirement. As soon as the cause becomes clear proper approach can be taken up. You can well acquaint yourself with this quality with the help of The Magic Of Making Up. As an example if we take the case of Mike and Carol. After the gloomy days of the break up he realized that in his selfish desire to fulfill his passion for sports he had completely overlooked her liking for arts. They had not been to any art event since four months and this could not be sheer coincidence.

Mike tried to figure out all these and the fact dawned on him that in order to get her back he had to make her feel all the fun moments which she had been awaiting and missing at the same time. He thought deeply and thereby reacted in a humane manner by not laying the emotional burden of phone calls and texts constantly. He gave her enough time and space which made her decide what was she missing and how genuine her love for him had been.

A couple of weeks after the break up Mike invited her to an art event of her liking with a note of "just as friends”. This note gave her  the assurance of having enough space which made her feel that joining him there would not create an awkward situation for her. The
invitation being to a place of her interests blended with the opportunity of the company of someone who she has been missing long owed to her till date persisting love for him made her to grab the offer. Just after the event he made their way to romantic restaurant and availed the best beer to them. The special feeling and place that was created for her made her appreciate the new color that had beautified his feelings for her.

Such appreciation for Mike led the ball to his court. He now had the first hand at deciding how they could get back together. Taking good care of the situation he very carefully and politely mentioned that he has affinity for sports and that he would really like his love to enjoy this fun with him. Her idea about the offside and fouls would give him happiness.

The great mood that she was in already made Carol agree to it readily. The two souls laid down the voluntary pact of giving a new beginning to the relationship that had come to a halt. A second thought to the whole situation shows that although Carol broke up in a fit of anger there was still resentment in her heart to chop off all the feelings that she had for him. She actually never desired that the relationship she had been into should lose all shades and enter into a state of stagnation. Mike was sensible enough to realize things properly and taking the correct measures to get back things well for the two of them. He was intelligent enough to understand the mentality of a woman and was not trapped within the bars of ego. He didn't let himself down but at the same time handled the situation very well.


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