Unveiling the Truth: How to Verify Your Date's Background

May 5
09:13

2024

Cathy Taylor

Cathy Taylor

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Discovering the truth about someone you're dating can be crucial, especially if you suspect they might be hiding something significant like a marriage or a dubious financial past. This guide delves into how you can access vital records such as marriage and divorce documents, and other financial data to ensure your potential partner is truthful and trustworthy.

Accessing Marriage and Divorce Records

State and County Records

Marriage and divorce records are typically housed in the Vital Records section of state Departments of Health or at the county level where the event occurred. To start your search,Unveiling the Truth: How to Verify Your Date's Background Articles it's advisable to begin in the county where the person currently resides. Statistics suggest that about 90% of individuals who engage in affairs do not travel far from home to do so (Marriage and Divorce Statistics).

At the state level, you can access any marriage records within the state that are considered public. However, be prepared for a wait time ranging from two weeks to six months. County records are generally quicker to obtain, with a typical processing time of 2 to 3 weeks. For an expedited process, consider hiring a public record research firm, which can reduce the wait time by approximately 95%.

Types of Marriage Records

  1. Public Marriage Records: These are accessible to anyone and can confirm if a person is married.
  2. Confidential Marriage Records: Accessible only to the individuals named on the license, these records are not available to the general public. However, the presence of a name in the marriage index can still indicate that the person is married.

To order a marriage certificate, you will need the full name of the individual and the jurisdiction where the marriage likely occurred. Costs typically range from $20 to $25, with additional fees for certified copies.

Divorce Records

Divorce records, which are certified copies of the divorce decree, are available from the Family Court in the county where the divorce was filed. These records can provide details such as the presence of any restraining orders and the final terms of the divorce. While state records might offer a Certificate of Record, these do not indicate whether the divorce was finalized and are less detailed than county records. Processing times at the state level can exceed six months, but local jurisdictions offer quicker access, especially if you use a research firm.

Checking Financial Background

In addition to marital status, understanding a potential date's financial background can be equally telling. Research firms can access a variety of financial records, including:

  • Real estate ownership
  • Tax liens
  • Judgments and civil lawsuits
  • Bankruptcies
  • Local criminal records

These records can provide a comprehensive view of a person's financial responsibility and character. For detailed searches, employing a public records research firm is recommended. Members of the National Public Records Research Association or the Public Record Retriever Network are reliable choices as they adhere to strict ethical standards.

Conclusion

Whether you meet someone online, through a friend, or in a social setting, knowing the truth about their background can protect you from potential heartache and financial risk. Utilizing the resources available for checking public records can give you peace of mind and ensure that your new connection has the potential for a trustworthy relationship.

Remember, it's always safer to know the truth upfront. For more detailed guidance on checking criminal records, refer to Part 1 of this series.